I need help with bullies at school

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Hm I've heard that if a kid stands out as different their odds of being bullied r 100%. The poll seems about right.

A few times in gym class.

1. Ignoring bullies do not work, because the main purpose is to escalate their tactics to get rid of you.
2. Fighting back or "standing up for yourself" does not work either, either you'll be suspended/expelled for fighting or the bullies friends will attack you for revenge.
3. If you inform the school administration and they do little to stop it, I would advise you to call the police. File a police report against the bullies.

Oh why must them Yankees be at it again (Heh. I use "Yankee" as a generic southern-originated term in the USA.) Anyway, I suggest talking to the administration in charge of your school. And did you know that if they fail at efforts to deter bullying, you CAN file charges for failure to intervening even when you use ALL strategies related to telling the admins. Note that they are NOT liable if you do not use all legal available strategies.

I ignored them constantly for six years, didn't work. But do some preplaning,
first step is allways to contact the teacher and let them talk to the class,
if they can't do anything, include parents, both yours and the bullies.
Warn you parents that you will use force if it's not working.

If that isn't working, silently provoke them where you have plenty of witnesses. Don't walk away, don't aswer, and don't show any reaktion whatever they say, just keep looking at the leader. (Make sure you're standing with you back at or close something) If he pushes you (into whatever you're standing in front of), still don't do anything.

But the second he grabs you (make sure you're in range), trash him. Physicly. With all the might you have. Make sure he and his minions knows that you are the toughest and the only reason they are still have their health intact is becouse you spare them.

That's why I held out as long as I did, I didn't want to hurt them. (Ironi for you. )

And for the aim, if you punch him, aim for the chin. If you aim right even a weak hit will make him dizzy (very good for follow ups). A good one knocks him out. If you do knock him out, don't do anything more. That would get you in trouble.

The key is allways to take the leader. If he(or she) stops, the others fall in line as they allwas do.

First, i would step out of my comfort zone and tell the kid to stop. If that doesnt help, i would then tell a teacher or principal about it.

your asking fellow aspies if theve been bullied, of course we have were different

i dont know where you live, but i grew up in the sh***y streets of gang infested northern california, i got jumped by mexicans the first time when i was 11, been hell ever since, i got in so many fights through jr highschool - highschool, i finally got expelled, and the 1 thing i learned is bullies dont like when the ppl they're trying to victimize fight back, because they dont expect that or think your too p**** to fight back.

Thats why I hate bullies or whatnot, they make life so difficult for people. I was bullied alot in middle school but very little in high school so far and my best friend is 6'8" and 260 pounds and people know he has my back and most people like me now anyway.

If you're a loner like me, you'll sure be bullied by some inmature soul.

Year in, year out, people bully me, even people from my class. I just see what can I deal with them, lol.

ok, i'm 100% off attacking viliance and all, will never do it. but if you want to I do know the best spot that stop the with-out damaging them or anythink just hitting a nerve:
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hit with your fist closed and a having your index nuckle out and put your thumb on the nail, and then with that nuckle hit him under that cap of your shoulder, try on your self first just feel around your shoulder and you will find it. And you make shore you have a strong hard fist out.

(|) This a small little thing of a back spine you get your nuckle from before and hit the bold. a little under those 2 lump bones on your back, but on the soine (don't worry no spine damage and be caused
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so there 2 and hope you don't use them