What makes for a cute (insert opposite gender here)

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A cute boy/man...

Around my height
Nice eyes (if they are blue, even better!)
Nice smile
Cute hair, hehe. Not long, but not shaven.
Understands and aceepts me, and they way I am and behave, etc.
Gentle and quiet (don't like rough, noisy people)
Intelligent
Caring
Someone I can trust
Nice hands (haha I know it's very weird. It's just that I've noticed some people have really gentle-looking hands and it looks nice). To be honest, this last one is not a major one, more of a bonus if they have it!

in a girl..
usually darker hair
around my age (I wouldn't date someone more than 2 years apart from me)
around my height (i'm about 5'6", i'm not exactly sure if i'll get taller or not)
someone who can somewhat understand me
not extremely thin (though not fat)
has similar interests

Someone who "knows what matters". I.e. someone who agrees with me on what is irrelevant or secondary. lol It doesn't take much more, since I don't even know for what to look other than pure compatibility.

I'm physically attracted to girls with black hair and glasses.

I guess I tend to be more attracted to red hair or dyed hair (not black dye, though). Hypocritical, argumentative, violent and childish seem to be bonus qualities - but a dash of sympathetic nature and understanding always helps. General gothyness. Definately not skinny. I'm not that phased by physical attributes usually, because I have to focus on finding people who I can actually get on with So this is more of a hypothetical ideal thingy.
I probably just seem all shallow now

A girl with personality often works with me.

Likes either dogs, birds, or both.

I am a dude so in general i would like a chick that would not be mean and has a sense of humor. But looks............they don't really matter

lol
Exactly what this guy wrote except for in a guy ( yup, i like guys with long hair)

..., and I prefer guys when they're not overly confident.. a little shy is god
or a girl who fits the same description


* OMG I cant believe you like agalloch too lol no one else seems to

in guys i like just a normal dude.about average.

i like a dude who is well-balanced...

like..he's sort of artistic but he still likes some sports and doesn't put himself above people.

i like a jeans and t-shirts dude..just a normal,down to earth guy that isn't afraid of getting messy.

i don't like those big"ooo i'm bangin' a stripper" rapper guys.
i don't like people who're like "working class=stupid"

and i REALLY hate guys who act like spoiled brats.

thank-you.
that is all.

F.Y.I. I am mostly asexual but often aesthetically admire both girls and boys.

cute boys:
wear glasses
have thick, dark hair
generally have a "Jewish" look about them
are either shorter or taller than me
wear sweater vests
have very smooth skin

cute girls:
have straight brown hair
are very pale or have light brown "intermediate race" skin
dress prim and proper
have large eyes
have a few moles, freckles, and beauty marks

For the x chromosome:

Fair personality: not too reserved where it seems alienating, but not too bubbly where it just seems faked (lots of bubbly folks in the South for sure!!)

I will mock someone with a deep southern accent, so watch out!! !! !! !

Someone who likes to have fun but can allow me to go to my aspie happy place

Someone who I can share my aspie happy place. The only one who gets me into the geek zone is my close friend (a y chromosome).

Motivated, but not conceited. A little scientific-styled arrogance may be appropriate to keep each other in check, though.

Artsy, or maybe even a musician!

BRAINS BRAINS BRAINS!! !! !! !! !! But not to where I become the Pinky (cartoon reference)

Someone who understood that cartoon reference

Where I feel cool instead of the "principal Skinner" feeling I put on people I had a questionable crush on.

Someone who understood that other cartoon reference.
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Physique

A little to big tan
Don't mind going global and out of the Caucasian box
Glasses=cool

I seem to have a thing for cute chicks with short hair who like to skateboard and like punk music (I know not exactly the opposite gender but hey there's nothing wrong with that, right? )

guy:
brown hair
long or medium length hair
usually queer (that is a bit problematic seeing as I am female)
fairly femme

girl:
brown hair
long hair
queer
femme

I am pansexual and have mainly been attracted to males in the past. The female is mainly hypothetical because I have only liked one female and she is MTF.

In a female
Tan skin a plus
Not skinny yet not fat because I looking for a women to look like one not to look like pre teen girl.
attractive
Asian is a plus
Brunett or red head a plus
Or standard caucasain american I am not racist it just black women dont do it for me
Interesting
Simlar intrests
smart
Maybe of equal intelligence dont want to have intlellect wars
Doesn;t treat me like S***
Doesn;t mistreat me or minipulate my kind personality
Because as an aspie I got to do my pet topic frequently which is video games so a gamer is a plus.
I may not fit most womens expectations due to my weight but I will not give up until I lose my weight.