What makes for a cute (insert opposite gender here)

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Everything above the shoulders. Every tiny detail - I'm a photographer, I appreciate these things. And of course, what's inside the head is even more important than what's on the outside.

In a lass:

Essential:
Compassionate.
Interested in learning such and such.
Willing to put up with my tastes.
Liberal-minded (I thought about this and tbh, I couldn't live about a girl who would disagree with me hugely. In fact, this point may be very irrelevant as it tends to come with the above combinations).

Optional but wonderful:
Vegan.
Shares tastes.
Puts effort in appearance.
Candid.
Patient enough.
Confident.
Large eyes.
Chin-length curly hair.
Very long, straight hair.
Dreadlocks.
Shortish/medium-length hair that indicates voluptuous character.
Curvy or thin.
Can put up with clinginess, as I can imagine myself developing this.
Far Eastern.
African.
Basically not English (our girls are mainly fugly).
Prefers one-on-one socialising.

I'll leave it at that for now.

a topic that is still strangely intriguing, but a thread that now makes me sad, for a variety of reasons

realism (i dont think there is anything i hate more than colossal inflated egos)
some interest in music (enough to come to gigs with me)
some patience
and i still dont know why i like the way certain girls look, but its never quite seemed to line up with other people's opinions

Looks are one of the things I find least important in a girl. In descending order of importance:
Intelligence
Resilient, none of that 'eek a mouse' type of stuff, more of a 'knows what she's doing' but not insanely strict.
Athleticism and high metabolism a plus (trying to offset some poor genes in my genome )

I am yet to understand how people find others 'cute' or 'attractive' in such a way. A person is cute if they remind me of a puppy, or attractive if they remind me of a cat. Simple.

But for human beings in general I like someone who has emotions, complications, opinions on life and so forth.

I'm a guy.
Good looks are nice to see in a girl. However, good looks by themselves are simply not enough to win my attentions. I don't really have any racial preferences towards girls, either.


Ideally, she would:

-Be intelligent (again, I am not interested in a vase with empty space - my gal has to have some brains.)

-At least somewhat nerdy (because I am also nerdy. I love video games/anime/cartoons/manga/American superhero comics, but I am also prone to intellectual & philosophical thought/conversation.)

-Fairly low-maintenance (I'm not a sugar-daddy, and I don't want a sugar-momma. I just want someone I can chill with and have fun with.)

And most importantly of all, she would:

-Accept me for who I am. (because I would do the same for her. (I would maybe introduce her to my interests and whatnot, but I would never actually attempt to change how she is as a person.) And any girl who tries to change me is simply not worth the effort of a relationship, IMO. Acceptance is a big part of the package for me.)

nice eyes, good sense of humour, taller than me/same height, long hair is nice unsless short hair suits him, skinny, not a "cool dude", someone who thinks for them selves and isn't a sheep, not chavvy

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Dose liking the sight of somthing being vaporized by a nuclear bomb count as pyro???

Pale, shy, and quirky.

Personality:
Nice
Sweet
Understanding
Independent
Smart

Looks:
Tan
Dark eyes
Dark hair
Skinny (not too skinny though)


In other words, my current girlfriend.

In female

Awesome hair is usually what I consider attractive. The bigger the better. Also colour isn't sooooo important, but crazy colours like pink or blue are just sexy Honestly, if the hair is good enough everything else can be acceptable.

Big eyes, any colour. My eyes are small-ish so I go for the Big-eyes Small-eyes thing.

Thin, but not skeletal. I'm dangerously thin myself, although I wouldn't consider myself skeletal. Big tits are cool, but not necessary. More of a bonus.

Oh, also I assume I'd find a personality similar to mine sexy, I just have to meet anyone like that... of either sex

A cute girl:
1.Femininity
2.hair between...1' and 6"
3.shorter than me(I'm 5'10")
4.eyes
5.lips

I don't have much of an opinion on this matter.
I suppose a boy is attractive if he is clean cut, doesn't have a sickly appearance, and looks somehow nerdy.