boyfriend issue : what do guys expects from their gfs?

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Can any guys explain how I am supposed to treat my boyfriend when he hugs me? I know this might sound stupid but I don't know how to respond I'm an aspie and he's NT. I don't know how to act, how to know when he wants to be "close" or when he just wants to talk? I haven't explained this very well, sorry
Ok. I'll try again:
We have been going out for a while and I don't know how to act around him or respond when he hugs me, etc.

Maybe a list of things of what guys expect from their girlfriends would help!!

Please help

I'm really affectionate with my boyfriend, I'm very sensitive to tactile experiences so I'm always snuggling and hugging and hand holding. When your boyfriend hugs you just put your arms round him and hug him back, I'd let him pull away when he's had enough hugging. You could ask him to tell you when he wants to hug or hold hands etc.

Above poster got most of it right.

The number one thing that boyfriends expect: Don't cheat.
Number two: leave us alone when we're playing video games (well, most guys. Personally I'd prefer someone who gave a rip about my gaming).