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IceCreamGirl
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30 Aug 2010, 6:33 pm

I feel bad about myself all the time :( . These are some thoughts I have sometimes:
"Would an NT do this?"
"Would most Aspies even do this?" (I feel like I have very severe Asperger's Syndrome)
"Would most people think, 'Now, that's just freaky'?"
"I should have started caring what people thought of me earlier!"
"Am I mean?"
"Can't people just forget the embarrassing things I've done?"
Does anyone else have this problem?



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30 Aug 2010, 7:08 pm

I decided not to care what other people think in most situations when there is no logical reason to. So no.



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30 Aug 2010, 9:40 pm

Sometimes, but then I realize that in most situations it doesn't really matter what people think. I try to avoid being mean, but I guarantee that almost everybody sees me as being odd and I don't really care anymore. Unless its someone I need to impress, then I worry about seeming strange (mainly this just occurs at work).


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31 Aug 2010, 7:08 am

MDM wrote:
I decided not to care what other people think in most situations when there is no logical reason to. So no.


+10000 on this. There's no point getting yourself stressed and upset about what anyone else thinks.



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02 Sep 2010, 1:49 am

I know exactly what your talking about IceCreamGirl.

My condition isn't very severe. I'm able to deal with most social situations and I do have several friends. But sometimes I feel as though I 'slip-up' and say the wrong thing.

I recently told my friends about my condition and since I did that I've been feeling bad about myself all the time. I'm really concerned about what they, and other people, think.