poppyx wrote:
Specific examples?
"I won't get stds from sleeping around casually. Surely they would know."
This is from someone with a professional job and a superior range I.Q.
You did ask.
coming from an AS guy, heres how i would argue with an AS guy:
although those with AS tend to be very stubborn, and he is the one at fault here, the best thing you can do is listen to, exactly
why he thinks he wont get STD's from sleeping casualy, or applying to a general NT to AS argument here, ask him to clearly explain the logic of his beliefs, as people with AS may make an argument that is one sided or difficult to understand so doing this gets rid of the first problem.
second thing, once you are both sure you understand each other's logic, clearly point out where he is wrong. Although the best way to argue with him, or rather, to
persuade him that he is wrong is to make sure he understands that you are trying to help him. if he thinks you are just trying to prove him wrong/argue with him for the sake of it (im not implying you are) then it is very unlikely that he will listen to you.
summerising the last two paragraphs; ask him to clearly explain his logic, and point out where he is wrong
whilst making it clear that you are trying to help him so that he is more likely to open up to your advice.
I agree, aspies tend to be more stubborn, i know from my own and other aspies stubborness (although if someone has proved me wrong in factual terms i'll back down). But if you are both clear on each others advice and intentions, then you will likely achieve some progress.
this is just my hypothesis/experience speaking. I hope this helped you