Anyone Insecure?

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Don't worry, you can share this here, we won't make fun of you

I mean, I do. I sometimes don't feel like I can live up to some of the people I know. It's not models, even, it's real people. I really wish I could. I could go into detail here but I'll let youguys do that...

I only feel insecure in the terms of "once I'm out in the world" and "I'm not good-looking enough to get any girl's attention" I'm quite confident in other areas.

I'm not as insecure as I used to be, now that I've developed my theory on other adolescents and the triple-threat of Insecurity, Jealousy, and Spite. For some reason, I feel even more insecure and left out when I come to wrongplanet...

i used to be really insecure when i was younger but now im ok with myself and my attributes.

I used to be more insecure than I am now. It's helped that I have friends (and family and teachers) who accept the way I am and encourage me to do the same. Here's a quote your thread reminded me of, lucille:

"If you don't know and love yourself, then who can?" -Lucy Camden, Seventh Heaven

Constantly all the time about every little thing I’m not sure where my insecurities causes my paranoia or visa versa but I am pretty sure there linked and they are both caused by that this rampaging gnome living in my head. You learn to live with it

i'm almost always insecure

My mom has manifested a diagnosable eating disorder at least twice in my lifetime, once when I was very young. I think partly as a result of this, I started hating how I looked REALLY young. In second grade I hated my hair- I remember bashing myself about it in class. In third grade I started to feel fat, and in forth grade started skipping lunches. I got geniunely obese when I was thirteen or so, and started weight watchers when I was fifteen and have been on that diet (it's behavior modification) pretty much nonstop since then with a couple of -ahem- sabbaticals that did not go well. Now, I'm apparently "small" but I still feel like my body is kinda lousy. Sometimes I can look in the mirror and feel OK; sometimes I just despise how I look.

I also recently noticed that some things kinda "bend" at the edges of my full-length bathroom mirror and I'm starting to wonder if it's warped, and if so, is it making me look fatter or thinner? I hope it's making me look fatter. I really do.

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I can be really insecure at times. I'm always trying to look like I'm not. I think it makes people think I'm stupid...

Yeah, sometimes I feel like I'm not pretty enough, or just good enough at anything. I feel like other people always have it so much better.

Then I remember that my talent is something they never will have. I remember my family and friends and how they're there for me, and how i'm lucky to have come this far, and how much farther I can go!

I suppose that I'm concerned that I'm somewhat ugly and that my voice is horrible (and I clutter), but this is because I think I may want to enter politics and know I want to enter journalism.
The latter's difficult and the former's impossible without charisma.

Why so?

I used to be VERY insecure but now I am not.


-SpaceCase

Insecure as all get-out. My pride is very easily wounded and very slow to heal. And sometimes I worry that my friends don't really like me, etc.- even with a kid whom I've known for nearly three and a half years and been close to for over two years, I worry about it...

I worry about that too. I would like tot hink that most of my friends would outright tell me if I pissed them off, though, and I think they mostly either would or wouldn't let it bother them. I'd rather be confronted than secretly hated, provided a. I could fix the problem/issue and b. it wasn't some kind of violent physical or verbally abusive confrontation.

I'm alot more insecure online than the real world. In the real world, I'm already aware of what little I have to hold of myself, and I accept that. But if I become an exceptionally unpopular figure in cyberspace too, well...

Isent everyone thats why we care about stuff to much. WE should all relax and enjoy the ride if you dont have friends talk to the homeless if you fell bad tell a homeless man or some random about it.