Making a big decision for upcoming senior year

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So I'm going to be a full-time PSEO (Post-Secondary Enrollment Option) student next year. Going to take full college courses for credit and everything because I want to get the core courses out of the way and the courses for my major. I'm only going to be a part-time high school student because I only need one more English credit to graduate and half an elective credit (may or may not need the half elective credit because I have to negotiate with my high school principal on that still).
Currently I'm considering options for school next year. I have three choices: 1.) I stay at the school I'm at, which is a small private school with only 8 people a class. I've been there for 3 years now and next year they offer internship opprotunities.
2.) I go back to my old large public high school and have my pseo courses paid for by the state and take an AP English course since the community college I'm at won't let me take English courses until I get all of my credits for English in high school first. With that AP course though, I could test out of English 101 and get credit if some colleges take it.
3.) I get my final credits over the summer and graduate high school as a junior and start college at my local community college I'm currently taking my PSEO courses at right now and then transfer somewhere else to finish my major.
All of these decisions are tough. My main concern is my growth socially. After meeting with my old friend, I'm leaning towards going to the public school to grow socially since I'm not really growing at all socially at my private school because the whole private school I am at is close to only 50 high school students and I know everybody (they are my friends but they are immature and I'm tired of them). My old public school has 1000 plus! They also have more extracirricular activities like stage crew, which I'm interested in. My options are bigger not to mention that I have more options for friends. Their social events look more promising too. My private school didn't have a prom! So I ended up missing my chance to have a big high school event to promote my social well-being. But to be honest I had a girl I knew at the public school I could have asked to go with and I got to anxious to ask to go with her, so it's kind of fault.
That's my opinion though, go ahead and give me yours.

Overall, it is your life, your education, and your well being, so the decision is solely yours.

That being said, I must warn you about the "social encounters" of +1000 students. First off, such a plethora of students does not guarantee that one will actually socially interact with them--my school has almost 2000 students, 480 in my grade alone, and I am friends with maybe fifteen of them and close friends with...well, depending on the definition of a close friend, somewhere between seven and none. Secondly, such a switch may prove to be overwhelming. Although you'll meet many kindred souls, you'll also meet many not-so-kindred souls, and the stress from the negative social encounters may overshadow the joy from the positive social encounters. Thirdly, the switch in environment in general may prove to be a bit stressful, and, accumulated with the stress of college level courses, may prove deleterious to your mental health and academic career.
Of course, you may adapt just fine. You know yourself the best of anyone.

Also, college also provides amble opportunity for social growth. Many college students are also socially immature, so you can learn socially alongside other socially immature persons.

Do you already know what college you'd like to attend? If you are aiming for a college in which you would really need to impress the admissions officers, entering college early would make a major impression on them--putting that much work into your education proves both how ambitious you are and just how seriously you take education.

Regardless of which route you take, you appear to be a very capable and talented student and will meet success along the way. Best of luck to you in your academic career.