I hate going to the dentist, and always have. I also have bad teeth even though I take care of them, so I have to go occasionally. Now we have no dental insurance and no money to pay for the dentist and I have a cavity and wish I could go.
But, one thing that convinced me about how important it is to go is that I read that many, many deaths during and before the middle ages were caused by infections stemming from a tooth or gum. Infection can get in and you can develop sepsis, or endocarditis, both of which, if not treated immediately and aggresively are fatal. The writer Lewis Grizzard died from complications from ignoring a cavity. He had had heart surgery and he was in Russia when he noticed the cavity and he waited a few weeks until he was home to go to the dentist. By then it was too late. He died.
People with Mitral Valve Prolapse are also at higher risk for endocarditis due to dental or gum infections. Thats why people who have MVP many times are given antibiotics before they see the dentist.
So, as bad as it is, imagine how important it can be.
It still doesn't help with the anxiety or discomfort, but it's kind of a motivation to open wide and deal with it.
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