lowfreq50 wrote:
I did bodybuilding for several years. I had the power of ASPIE-LEVEL OBSESSION on my side, and it is a powerful drive indeed. I think the best compliment I got was "Damn Keith! Your shoulders look like bowling balls!"
Up to a few days ago I was into martial arts. I did that for better than a year. My instructor decided that he was not going to let me test for greenbelt due to A) poor eye contact, B) lack of a "kata face" (facial expression), and C) robot-like movements. He doesn't know about Aspergers Syndrome.
Initially I was angry about this "discrimination" but when I calmed down my rationally won. If I got my leg cut off then I would not expect to remain in a martial arts class. I would not expect them to let me continue because it would cheapen the entire deal for everyone else. Martial arts is something that has certain physical requirements. If I was to make an issue about it and try to get some special exceptions, then it would take away from the value of the art for everyone else.
It would become a issue of always having to "re-draw the line." Next thing you know, some fat guy is saying "I can't do pushups cause i'm too fat. But can I get promoted anyway? You don't discriminate against fat people do you?" To make exceptions for that example or anything simply takes away from the value of the belt in question.
I need to change my avatar.
This sounds really unfair about Martial Arts. I do martial arts and the instructor is aware that i have AS and i recently got my black belt in September. I also have poor HEC and it was really difficult at first.
I also like running, going on bike rides and i really enjoyed PE lessons at school even though i was not very good at it!
Discrimination against Aspies is wrong and should be dealt with.