My mind is f*cked up

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I am the weirdest teenage dude ever...I think about physics and dimension travel and proof of "God" ,but I don't think about girls and boobs and stuff as much as other guys. And when I do I'm a total pervert the whole day. Then at night I go back to science and the next day I feel like I have a hangover...

is anyone online??

That doesn't make you wierd, as far as I can tell.

Its a myth that men think about sex every few seconds but if your aroused its normal to think about it alot. In the scheme of things your fascination with your special interest is partly the act of "nest building" to make yourself more fit in the mate selection game so in my reductionist thinking you are in effect indirectly thinking about sex when you think about physics. So my diagnoses is your fine. Though like all aspies you might beable to make the case your special interest maybe maladaptive in the realistic mating world.
I should know I thought about chemistry alot in the past. So maybe start a hobby that might be socially attractive like dancing.

Don't worry at all, just take your time and be interested in what you are interested in. Every once in a while just take a look at the girls in your vicinity. There might be a very attractive girl nearby who is already interested in you but you've never noticed.

Many girls are attracted to guys who have intense focus, who have original thoughts and a future. You just have to notice them. (not all girls of course, but many and the most interesting ones. You only need one to have a girlfriend, you don't have to appeal to every one of them!

But don't worry about it! You have your own internal clock like everybody else, and it won't do you any good comparing yourself to nts or other aspies or anyone else. A lot of us get anxious and try too hard and end up feeling like phonies and being alone for long periods but many many aspies do end up married and with kids. I don't know statistics, I'd be curious and I suspect they are better than people would suppose. Many guys, including NTs are totally clueless but most eventually end up in relationships in spite of themselves.

I've had similar experiences.

ok....i listen to to much beastie boys i think that's why i feel like that then i'll listen to something else and i'll think about physics and stuff so i guess it's just music

I think it's important to spend more time thinking about the finer aspects of our universe than about women. You shold be proud of yourself instead of thinking you're f*cked up.

Sounds like a plan!

Oddly enough, as you probably know the Beastie Boys have become Buddhists and done concerts to support the Tibetan Dali Lhama.....which suggests that either they are more like you than you in your focus on the Universe than you think they are or they would want to be more like you.

They probably don't listen to their own music all the time either, or expect anyone else to.

like you have a hangover?
like a your more tired than you usually are? cus that much makes sense but a full i drank a bottle of bourbon last night hangover it might be something more serious

besides boobs is a rather limited subject .... have em, dont have em, fake, showing .... thats about as far as you can go


also the beastie boys are awesome

All teenagers have intense thoughts about sex, because it's new to them, and they're just discovering it and how wonderful it could be.

Oh yeh, been there Renton, and am there minus the nights.

I've got a way of helping you with those endless nights. Push all of that quantum theory of stuff stuff out of your head with all of your strength and put the TV on. Avoid anything hot and anything interlectual, That means no documentaries. Comedy is best. When you get tired turn the TV off and your mind will be a lot clearer if not completely clear. Relax and go to sleep.

EARTH THE FINAL FRONTIER

Seriously man, that is the sum of my thoughts as well. (My opinions) I like string theory, I like the idea of God being a dimension or something, I like the idea of continuing the human race. Without these ideas, the world will be ******* up.

We share a couple obsessions. A few wikipedia links you might find interesting -

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tipler_cylinder
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Light_cone
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Minkowski_diagram
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Closed_timelike_curve

Primarily stuff having to do with relativity and time travel. (and not the stuff real physicists scoff at either)