Sometimes when I see that girl I feel the urge

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to grab her by the shoulders... You know the rest. Her silhouette is so perfect and her long, curly red hair is beautiful

Red headed girls to tend to be really cute. Does she know about you? Cuz if she noticed you and your her friend or something, you two could maybe work the relationship to the next level someday

No I loved her last year so I made a super long breath cutting poem without her even knowing about me. She answered by "Umm no?". Since then my love for her has turned into hatred, lust and perversion after weeks of shutdown and tears.

Lol... Nice, good troll, come here, I've got some troll food for you.

*Throws food under a bridge*

I ain't trolling.

grab her by the shoulders? and the rest - good way to possibly get slapped if she doesn't know you or there's no consent, sorry to tell ya?

that was your first interaction with her, as in you never told her how you feel, beforehand? sweet, but to me it doesn't seem like a starting point, rather starting smaller, see how she responds to that. but it's a good idea anyway to put your feelings down on paper if nobody ends up reading it, i may have to try that since i tend to bottle stuff.

Diagnosis:You're a teenage boy.

You have good tastes buddy. Redhead girls are hot. Every time I see a cute redhead, my heart melts. There was this one cute redhead girl I was recently crazy about for like 2 months. Long story short, I was too shy to ever initiate anything so even if she showed some interest, she probably assumed I was uninterested and quickly moved on. You don't want this to happen to you.

Now when you see a girl you like, you're going to have to work up some courage to go talk to her. Initiating the conversation can be the hardest part but once you do it, it's not that big of a deal. Girls are people too. Then you're going to have to keep the conversation going somehow. The sooner you get comfortable talking to women, the better and you will have an edge over most guys if you have no problem initiating conversations with girls. You don't want to be in 20s and you still can't talk to women because you're too shy. You'll never get anywhere if you can't even strike up a conversation with a girl around your age.

Asking for a girls number is probably the hardest part. You must first learn to deal with rejection because everyone gets rejected at some point. You may get rejected 9 times out of 10 but you have to bounce back up and learn from your mistakes. You can decrease your chance of rejection if you gauge her interest level. Don't just randomly walk up to a girl and ask for her number. The sooner you get over the fear of asking for a girl's number, the better.

You're 14 right? Girls that age tend to be immature and if you're not the ideal guy physically, then you may get your feelings hurt if you always try to approach girls, especially the attractive popular ones. Try talking to all girls, yes even the ones you're not attracted to. Iv'e found that these "average looking" girls are actually the friendliest and easiest to talk to and who knows, you two may share similar interests and you can have something to talk about.

Looks should never be enough to be won over by a girl. For all we know, this dreamy redhead who you can't stop obsessing over (i'm in the same shoes) is catty and stuck up and has traits that you can't stand.


Finally, I recommend reading this article. It helps. http://shynesssocialanxiety.com/shy-around-girls/