PSA for autistic teens looking at schools in Kent England

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Hi, I haven't posted before (ever), and this is my first time visiting this forum, but I really felt like I needed to get the word out here, as it seems that I'm the only person who's spoken up about this

There's a secondary school in the Kent area of England called Hadlow Rural Community School.
DO NOT. I repeat. DO NOT let yourself or any of your autistic loved ones go here. I am sure that neurotypicals find it just fine, but the place is an absolute hellhole for anybody on the spectrum.

I was emotionally abused by the staff there for four years of my life. It's been three years since I left, and I have never recovered emotionally or physically from the things I went through in the school. The staff insisted that I was a problem child and that I was lying about my autism. The SenCo at the time, a woman called Miss Twohig/Simms, tried to convince my mother that I was just researching 'big words' to tell people, because there's no way I could be autistic and smart at the same time.
I was locked in the isolation room- An incredibly claustrophobic, plain white room with a window into the office- for an entire day after I had an anxiety attack following the day's first lesson. I wasn't allowed to leave my chair or make any noise, or the teacher watching over me would yell at me and tell me that I was acting out for attention.
I was repeatedly called ret*d by multiple members of staff. I don't think I need to express how wrong this is.
I was denied access to stim/stress toys until the last year I stayed there, and the entire staff of the school refused to admit that I might do better in specialty education, as they were convinced it would make me dumber.

Please spread the word about this school any way you can. I really don't know how or where to post things like this as it's a relatively small school and all of the review websites I've seen are for parents only, and I don't know if I could convince my mum to write a review detailing everything I went through. I'm so sorry if things like this aren't allowed to be posted here, I just needed to get the word out. Thank you so much for reading, and please stay safe.

How terrible. I am so sorry you went through that.