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29 May 2007, 11:15 am

in the beginning of april i had a breakdown at school i set a piece of paper on fire and got arrested my courtdate is sometime in june i think and i'm not allowed to go places myself till after court it sucks because i hate being at home and my older sister wont take me anywhere i really wish people understood aspergers and autism before they start calling people like me pyromaniacs



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29 May 2007, 11:22 am

Oh dear. I hope that they do not sentence you. What lead to the breakdown?


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29 May 2007, 11:36 am

i'd rather not say



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29 May 2007, 11:36 am

i'd rather not say



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29 May 2007, 11:37 am

i'd rather not say



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29 May 2007, 11:39 am

Whoa. Triple post.

That's OK. Good luck on the court hearing.


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29 May 2007, 4:15 pm

Well... Out of curiosity, how does a breakdown cause one to set a piece of paper on fire? I've had a couple total breakdowns, but mine generally involved myself lunging at whomever refused to leave me alone, tackling them, and attempting to choke them until they left me alone. I have trouble imagining that a total breakdown would leave enough control to set a fire. *shrugs* And since when was AS linked to a fascination with fire?

Good luck on your court hearing, though.


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29 May 2007, 4:37 pm

My breakdowns used to consist of yelling and screaming to anyone who wouldn't leave me alone.



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29 May 2007, 6:14 pm

Well, so do my more normal ones. The ones of which I spoke are exceedingly rare--only twice in my life have I had something like that happen, and the second time I couldn't catch the person in question. Even so, I can't imagine holding enough composure to work a lighter or match.


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30 May 2007, 6:44 am

im sorry man but this post is gonna make me sound like a jerk

its hard to empathize with you when you wont tell us what happened .... also you might want to think about this a little more your talking like you had no control over what happened .. i understand that AS makes us more prone to this stuff but (although i dont know the situation) i think you need to accept some responsibility

or at least fake it not showing regret seems to ensure a harsh sentence


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30 May 2007, 7:11 pm

I can kind of understand why you would do that. I have done very stupid things due to stress. Although breakdowns for me are a little differen't...I just lose self control. But of course people have differen't ways of handling things. I hope you do not get in too much trouble for burning the paper but also I hope you find a better way to handle things to avoid jail time. Anyways, good luck on the court date!


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31 May 2007, 1:00 pm

If I have a breakdown, it generally involves me screaming and shouting, and then attacking someone, and only stopping when I am physically held down. :(


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31 May 2007, 4:59 pm

What I fail to understand is how you can get arrested for setting a piece of paper on fire.

Seems ridiculous in my opinion.

Then having to go to court for setting it on fire as a result of having a breakdown sounds rather bad.

Good luck



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31 May 2007, 7:40 pm

steve30 wrote:
What I fail to understand is how you can get arrested for setting a piece of paper on fire.

Seems ridiculous in my opinion.

Then having to go to court for setting it on fire as a result of having a breakdown sounds rather bad.

Good luck


Yeah, I thought of that too. I mean it's only a peice of paper...I don't see the big deal!


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01 Jun 2007, 1:04 pm

i just kurl in a ball and scream and shake. school is so upseting. :cry:



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01 Jun 2007, 1:04 pm

i just kurl in a ball and scream and shake. school is so upseting. :cry: