I seem to repel girls as if I'm a reverse magnet...

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Durfdo
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24 Feb 2008, 4:05 pm

I seem to repel girls as if I'm a reverse magnet... I used to admire this one girl, I asked her out but a few days later she went with this petty football player. I was happy when she broke up with him, but soon after, she got this guy named seth. (what an ugly name... If I was her, I would not even spit in that guy's direction.) He's ugly too! How in the $#@^%& can she get wih another guy, when she didn't even take the time to know him??? I now have a crush on this girl at my local dissability center, whose name is mallory, and has aspurgers. She was the one who actually suggested this site to our social group. :oops: Have you seen anybody named mallory on this site? I would like to know. Jusp PM me if you did, or have. Do you know how I can approach her? without making her freaked out wih her eyes buggin' out?

PM me with all the answers please.

alex
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24 Feb 2008, 6:05 pm

Durfdo wrote:

Have you seen anybody named mallory on this site? I would like to know. Jusp PM me if you did, or have. Do you know how I can approach her? without making her freaked out wih her eyes buggin' out?

PM me with all the answers please.

it's good that you're asking girls out. Don't take rejection personally. A lot of girls have weird tastes; you shouldn't worry about them. Continue to do as you're doing. If she has asperger's and you do too, she's probably not gonna get freaked out. If she does, don't take it personally, it just means she's inexperienced. Again, if you ask enough girls out, one will say yes, even if it takes a couple of year.

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kbergren21
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24 Feb 2008, 8:08 pm

Dude go for her! haha I think those girls you like before well I think they are attracted to those football players cause they treat them like bratty little sisters . Just kind of realized... How many times today my girlfriend called me a "jerk" or an "as*hole" but its more like a term of affection. Tease mallory in a little playful matter, get her comfortable, and ask her out on a date!

Izaak
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25 Feb 2008, 9:52 am

actually... more accurate would be a magnet of like poles?

and good luck in the search. No sparks of memory for the name "mallory", however she may have used a pseudonym.

Shinobi91
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06 Mar 2008, 8:34 pm

Durfdo wrote:

Don't worry,man! I have the exact same problem as you! I consider myself to be "physically advantaged" ,or "good looking" as others would say. I seem to notice that many girls are interested in me and I think I just may have a chance, but then, out goes my "freaky behavior" and I unconsciously repel them like a "reverse effect" magnet, just like you said! I believe we can control that magnet of ours to make it act in an attractive way, but it might not be easy and could require some work if we want to change in our personalities.
Nevertheless, its a 100% possible!
As for mallory, I haven't seen anyone with that name yet,sorry.

Thatmew
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08 Mar 2008, 10:53 am

Yes, as a proclaimed Next Bill Gates, I was a repellent in middle school, of the reason that I was a spaz. But oddly enough, there were still some who cared. It was weird really...

Whivit
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08 Mar 2008, 11:42 am

Eh, that girl just sounds like... well, a typical female teenager, I guess? Breaking up with someone and getting together with someone else a few days later. *Shakes head* Meh.

I realize crushes can't be controlled very well, but you can focus on more promising relationships, yep.

Brittany2907
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17 Mar 2008, 11:10 pm

I'm not sure how old you are and what year that your in at school...but I can say, that there is plenty of time to get a girlfriend and the more time you spend trying to get one, the least likely you'll find one.
Just be yourself, don't try and change who you are for the sake of getting a girl. There will be someone out there who appreciates the real you.
Thats just general advice.

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