hooking up on WP!! COME ON GIRLS!! ! (and boys...xD)

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About a yeah ago i started dating a girl (NL) online. although i have never really tried to get a girlfriend (exept when drunk) im very happy being with her, and really hope to meet her someday. It helped me alot, and so i thought i would make a "dating post" where all us aspie teens can meet and learn about each other, and if your lucky, fall in love ....

Well... I internetdated for half a year, meeting on WoW(Grown OUT of WoW...Lego Duplo compared to EVE and NOTHING compared to reality ).... was 'bout 15, 16...
She ( I R a He) was a deceptive, manipulative, insecure, but witty and passionate younglady,
and I was a neurotic, demanding, not-too-handy youngbloke..

Now I'm halfway to 18 and I'm hungering for love again... All my friends(Yes, I have MAAANYYY) are all doi'n the li'l springtime pairup scene from Bambi...
I can tell you marvellous stories of dozens of people who I can assure you have found their true love. Both men and women.
Everyone has many chances at such luck..

Be warned, though, that chances for catastrophe are just as great when an autie or aspie's self-control(Oh so useful in anyone) is, without falter, always snapped like a twig through hormones(Hypersensitivity to that "natural high" has been my downfall more then once), and that our incarnation of neurodiversity tends to favour men.

That being said, here's a summary of...me(Yes I KNOW it doesn't work like that :
Main strengths:
-Social skills on par with NT's,
-Logic, particulairly patterns and SPEEEEEEEEEEEEEED of concept thought,
-A vast library of quotes and impeccable appreciation for timed cynicism...
-Incorruptible sense of right and wrong

Main weaknesses:
-Liable to get blindsided and even thrown out of focus by the unexpected.
-A seething hate for willful ignorance
-An uncontrollable impulse to "make right" anything wrong, even if the subject hates me, which leads to further mayhem.
-An increased need of "m-hm"-ing for whomever I rant at. Acknowledging that you follow my frayed logic=A good thing.

...Rants are usually only forecast when things hit the fan.

What I'd LOVE: Someone who can stream out a vast torrent of information at me, and can recieve the same, maybe even babble through eachother's words continually...
Of course I'm the first to not only empathize but also adapt and attune to the quirks of others.

This was just a 'bump', but filled with bored fluffing. If anybody else would like ta join this topic, just..write. I suggest PM's would make good replies, only being visible to the reciever and all, and both shyness and impoliteness are left at the doorstep when scrolling any further...Yes, I'm looki'n at you!

(PS: Holland is AWESOME!... 'ts where I'm from... If ya ever need someone from NL for logistics.... I might be able to help)