How am i an embarrassment?

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How am I being embarrassing if I tell the whole world out loud about getting a whipping and missing prom? It hurt my feelings. When I complain aloud in public, my family says I embarrassed them. I look at it this way: I was the one who was hurt, and suffered, so I have a right to complain as much as I so choose, They can deal with the embarrasment, they didnt suffer, i did, so the least they can do is listen to me repeat the story over and over again. Thats not annoying, and they can handle the severe embarassment they say i caused. Being the eldest child, I've bared the worst of things only to come to miss my senior prom and get a whipping at 18. For that, I ought to be able to bully my little sisters if i want to (i'm too nice to do that), I missed my prom because my little sister said i was wmbarrassing her by being loud and telling my business. So DAMN what!! !, I suffered the hell, so who is she to talk about embarrassment?! HA! Why the hell should I waist my energy caring about how I make others feel when I bared the worst misfortunes?

You have been posting about this one event for months now. Out of your 49 posts, probably 40 of them are about this "whipping" , and about doing cruel mean things to your sisters. If you can't stop obsessing over this event, you really should seek counseling.

It embarrasses them because they don't want anyone to know how they really treat you.
Parents who abuse their kids do not want anyone else to know about it.

you parents are embarrased because your complaining and moaning about something that you should be old enough and mature enough to get over. and then to be loud about it and say it in public.

and, hearing complaints and hearing something over and over IS annoying, so i see exactly where you parents are coming from.

your over 18, and your saying you have the right to "bully your little sisters"? you ought to realize how childish you actually sound.

im not saying to have to nessacarily care about other peoples feelings, but if you would take them into account, mabey you wouldnt be "suffering" these "worst misfortunes".

taking offence and getting your feelings hurt over every little thing is no way to go through life successfully, you'll never win. ever. grow up.

I don't think you belong there where you live, Princess_1989. Get out of there. Go to Social Services and the least they can do is direct you to a shelter. Sleep on their property until they get you a real place to live. Social Services HAS to help you.