Page 2 of 3 [ 33 posts ]  Go to page Previous  1, 2, 3  Next

jman
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 23 Oct 2004
Age: 41
Gender: Male
Posts: 1,278

30 Apr 2006, 2:12 pm

I am very able of abstract thoughts however this is not an abstract situation. I hate to sound patronising but no matter what you do their is going to be consequences.In your casee in resulted in ban from the chat. It's nice that you are apologizing but that doesn't mean you have to face consequences.

I think you're making a mountain out of a mole hill. Why are you letting the fact that you got banned from a chat bother you so much? if soneone is doing something on the computer that is upsetting you just simply turn it off and find something else to do. You're not doing yourself any favors by dwelling on it and being emotional about it.

I'd hate to imagine what you're like when a real catastrophe happens to you. :roll:



Florescent
Velociraptor
Velociraptor

User avatar

Joined: 10 Mar 2006
Gender: Male
Posts: 433
Location: Westerly Ri

01 May 2006, 6:56 am

The issue is done k? I figured out I must explain abstract jokes, all of then so that does not happen again. I will continue to tone down the humor, but not eliminate it, people need it. It will not be against anyone K? I had a major melt down cause this event triggered a trauma issue K? They are out to get me was triggered K? That is post trauamatic stress disorder k? It can get pretty bad but I never do anything really rash.. I can calm down, I know coping strategies, unlike some people I know.



hale_bopp
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 2 Nov 2004
Gender: Female
Posts: 17,054
Location: None

01 May 2006, 7:36 am

It's not that we don't get these abstract jokes, they just aren't funny. And when you do it 20 times a day it gets predictable and tiring.



Florescent
Velociraptor
Velociraptor

User avatar

Joined: 10 Mar 2006
Gender: Male
Posts: 433
Location: Westerly Ri

01 May 2006, 8:18 am

Hale bopp you are going overboard. I appologized, that is it. I don;t care what you say about my jokes, cause in your circumstances, your opinon is not valid. You see, you are pissing me off. I am more aware than anyone here, and I don;t need you telling me what I did wrong. Just stop k? Besides I appologized in the chat room and tried to ammuse you. Could we just end this, please?



Florescent
Velociraptor
Velociraptor

User avatar

Joined: 10 Mar 2006
Gender: Male
Posts: 433
Location: Westerly Ri

01 May 2006, 7:23 pm

alright that is enough. I get harassed and I took only so far. I don;t like having blood wiped on me. I ask you about your bloody noise and what od I get you wipe it on me. f**k you ashfire.



jman
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 23 Oct 2004
Age: 41
Gender: Male
Posts: 1,278

01 May 2006, 7:42 pm

not even cyber-blood :lol:



ecstasia
Yellow-bellied Woodpecker
Yellow-bellied Woodpecker

User avatar

Joined: 11 Dec 2004
Gender: Female
Posts: 51
Location: Canada

01 May 2006, 7:43 pm

Florescent wrote:
alright that is enough. I get harassed and I took only so far. I don;t like having blood wiped on me. I ask you about your bloody noise and what od I get you wipe it on me. f*** you ashfire.


You are aware that it wasn't real blood, right? It was RP blood.



jman
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 23 Oct 2004
Age: 41
Gender: Male
Posts: 1,278

01 May 2006, 7:53 pm

The "lifegaurds" of the wp chat


Image

c'mon florescent don't we look like nice people



Florescent
Velociraptor
Velociraptor

User avatar

Joined: 10 Mar 2006
Gender: Male
Posts: 433
Location: Westerly Ri

01 May 2006, 8:49 pm

everyone else is aloud to make fun of me in the chatroom. Damn you are so lucky, I have a million things I have been wanting to say, but I don;t out of courtsey. So if everyone is against me, I should just leave there. Honestly I did react, but Ashfire was more hurtful to me. I am sick of the grudges. I forget it when the mods are wrong just for peace, but no one else will. I am getting closer and closer to leaving this forum. Carla is banned, and now I am banned from the chat room for the third time. They think I am ret*d, come on everyone is not like you. Sorry that is too bad, everyone is different not the same. . I ask you one more time Hale bopp, give up now. Bury the hatchet. Your comments cannot hurt me, I have too much pride,. I don;t want to end this way, but if you want to keep going I will assume other wise. I have seen people continue to harass someone when they are attracted to them. So with that said bury the hatchet Hale bopp. I would like it if you would like me, but you don;t have to. I ask that you at least bury the hatchet and try to be nice to me. Don;t get the wrong idea or kid yourself I am not attracted to you. I am sorry if I hurt you here again. Don;t make me regret this by responding badly like everyone else. As matter of fact if you don;t give up, I am going to assume you are trying ot do some love think with me. Sorry I am not attracted.



Florescent
Velociraptor
Velociraptor

User avatar

Joined: 10 Mar 2006
Gender: Male
Posts: 433
Location: Westerly Ri

01 May 2006, 9:44 pm

no, looks are not as important as the personality. You are doing it again. I am not the stupid one here. You have taken my statement literally. Ashfire cannot kid with me. He broke that already. I know it was virtual but it was disrespecful. He already got me banned ounce, this is the second time. I have had enough. I know you saw those behaviors, don;t pretend you did not. I try again to be nice and he bit me again. You saw the duct tape. You also let andy make fun of me too. I have a million cracks I could make, and let me tell you its easy. I am trying to hold them in for your benifit. I understand about issues, but I am loosing my patients. You are makeing a big mistake pissing me off. I have so much to teach. I could help anyone there better than you can. I loosing my patient and you need me, not smart. I see much I could do, but I think you are going to blow it. I am might leave.



Aeturnus
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 30 Mar 2006
Gender: Male
Posts: 842

02 May 2006, 2:15 am

jman wrote:
I am very able of abstract thoughts however this is not an abstract situation. I hate to sound patronising but no matter what you do their is going to be consequences.In your casee in resulted in ban from the chat. It's nice that you are apologizing but that doesn't mean you have to face consequences.

I think you're making a mountain out of a mole hill. Why are you letting the fact that you got banned from a chat bother you so much? if soneone is doing something on the computer that is upsetting you just simply turn it off and find something else to do. You're not doing yourself any favors by dwelling on it and being emotional about it.

I'd hate to imagine what you're like when a real catastrophe happens to you. :roll:


Some people are more sensitive to others, and aspies are definitely much more sensitive than NTs. The people who run these chatrooms, whoever they are, should have an understanding of the feelings of the people there, especially for someone who has some form of cancer. If the people who run these chatrooms, whoever they are, don't know that, then maybe they shouldn't be boss.

It's not always easy for us to let things go on the spin of a dime. I think they call it "theory of mind" or something.

- Ray M -



Aeturnus
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 30 Mar 2006
Gender: Male
Posts: 842

02 May 2006, 2:23 am

Florescent ... Not that I'm criticizing you or anything, but it might be helpful if you would tone down a bit on how you perceive yourself. You seem to be directly inflating yourself above everyone else, constantly stipulating how great you are over others. That can be taken with way more hurt to others than abstract jokes. It can sound very condescending at times.

- Ray M -



Tequila
Veteran
Veteran

Joined: 25 Feb 2006
Age: 36
Gender: Male
Posts: 28,897
Location: Lancashire, UK

02 May 2006, 4:54 am

Aeturnus wrote:
Florescent ... Not that I'm criticizing you or anything, but it might be helpful if you would tone down a bit on how you perceive yourself. You seem to be directly inflating yourself above everyone else, constantly stipulating how great you are over others. That can be taken with way more hurt to others than abstract jokes. It can sound very condescending at times.

- Ray M -


Quite. It's all about him, him, him all the time. No-one else seems to exist in that world of his - whilst it's OK to think like that in your head sometimes, bringing that sort of behaviour out into the real world is not on.



Quatermass
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 27 Apr 2006
Age: 41
Gender: Male
Posts: 18,779
Location: Right behind you...

02 May 2006, 5:21 am

Ah, come on. I take after Dogbert's rephrasing of the Cartesian Principle:

You're not me.
Therefore you're irrelevant.
:lol:

Kefka LOL



Florescent
Velociraptor
Velociraptor

User avatar

Joined: 10 Mar 2006
Gender: Male
Posts: 433
Location: Westerly Ri

02 May 2006, 6:27 am

I know this, I see all the boasting I do. It has a very specific purpose. Ordinarally I would not do this if I did not feal threatened. I toned down the behavior in the chatroom and still got banned. In the chatroom its the mods that bother me. Out here its the rumors I hear about certain people, Emp, and Hale bopp. The other reason I boast so much is cause I work hard on improving myself. I am trying to close down an issue with Hale bopp, but she won;t let me. She continues to beat on me. Ray m you are the first one who has a valid point, and I am sorry. I get treated like a ret*d in the chatroom, a person who has no controll. I am getting pissed off with them and their grudges. I killed the issue. I appologized, did what I was supposed to, and explained my behavior and still got banned. Fact is I feal threatened in that chatroom, cause others allowed to beat on me and when I respond I get banned. I don;t even do anything bad. I am really mad at ashfire he manipulated the chatroom mods, and they fell for it. I may boast alot but I appologize if I hurt anyone always. I don;t actually attack anyone unless certain conditions are filled.



Last edited by Florescent on 02 May 2006, 11:30 am, edited 1 time in total.

Florescent
Velociraptor
Velociraptor

User avatar

Joined: 10 Mar 2006
Gender: Male
Posts: 433
Location: Westerly Ri

02 May 2006, 11:26 am

I know what happened and its the mod's fault. Remillard attacked me. He has no right to kid with me cause he left an issue unopened. He had no intrest, yet, to close it down. He believes I am lying. I lost compassion for Ashfire and became blind to the fealings of others. This was Remillard;s fault. He set me off. He triggered the truama. He triggered they are out to get me. After than nothing else matter not even fealings of others. Honestly I was doing fine untill he attacked me. It is because he is a mod and therefore should be protecting me. I am not lying I gave doctor;s names for cancer. He says I don;t care. They just can;t get it and so have lost patients with me. Even afkafka misinterpeted my tone of a comment as threating. That was not my intention, but the tone came from what Remillard did. Honestly Remillard if you want to try again I am open. Please I want to not be triggered for my own mental safety.