I expected this thing to happen at my AS friends birthday...

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Something terrible happened, this evening, I was celebrating my Aspie friends birthday, along he invited my ex-aspie friend, we were enjoying it all the time, until they broke out to a conversation that unfolded into my aspie friend growling and threatening my ex-friend to having him killed. He swinged his guitar hero controller at him, and roared at him to get out, before he managed to kill him, I have never seen him this angry, it was like staring into the eyes of a disguisting monster, in the end, he said to me; "Enough for today, go home Marcus, I'm glad you still are a good friend, see you another time". I hope he won't get arrested for this

I will make my ex-friends life a complete misery for this!! !! !

Sounds like he needs to deal with anger management. Anger is one of those emotions that can consume a person. He needs to get it under control or it will control him.

It's not easy being AS, life is often harder. Being misunderstood, the brunt of jokes, and often invisible is a hard way to live life.. but it’s up to a person on what kind of person they are. If he wants to be a angry & mean person, it looks like he has a good start.

Ignorant, annoyance beyond belief, I understand his actions, he destroyed his birthday!

There are 365 days per year, ONE of those days is one persons birthday, aka, IMPORTANT DAY, where you are supposed to have a very good time, my ex-friend was a bastard to do such a thing.......

on one hand, he could probably have broken your friends teeth out, one by one, and the cops wouldnt care. police work in norway sucks. probably depends where you live, but ive seen lots of people beaten to a pulp, and not a single consequence for the perpetrator whatsoever. so... i guess both your friends are safe

on the other your right, on a birthday party, whatever dissagreement you got, you keep it to yourself.
on my belated birthday celebration last week, we went to a chinese restaurant, and at the very end, for desserts, my brother got pissed off due to a simple misunderstanding, and like a good NT he got angrier and angrier the more i tried to resolve the original misunerdstanding before he simply sat there and cursed me out in front of everyone, only interested in "winning the fight"

luckily i dont stay pissed off for long, but.. the desert and ending of the celebration went down the toilet.

I live in a small, not so peaceful city, the most abusive, poor, beggar and drug users filled town in the country, I am not poor though. My friend owns a small house and all, he wouldn't get beaten up here, only put in jail, but I hope he doesn't, and I think the ex-friend is going to sladdre to his mommy . The town is about 3 and a half to 4 hours from your city if one should drive .

Another thing; CHINESE REASTURANT? DId you go to the one where there is a small bridge where you can see to the left, not right and walk over to the other side, and there is water and fountains under you, not to far from where an uproar about Sri-Lanka happened? Hard to explain, I have been there with my family sometimes.........

For the topic; this is how it began; We were having a Guitar Hero contest, I was in 1st place, the birthday aspie in 2nd, and the idiot in 3rd, he got pissed for that, and began b*tching about wanting to shut down the WWW, and making his mom force the aspie to pay money, and he is probably some kind of hacker, then the birthday aspie got furious, and........ yes

Yeh, he deserves an excuse. Even if you weren't responsible.

Not trying to defend your ex-friend, but ohh~ I've gotten that way in the past too. I'd get really upset whenever my brother beat me in a competition, and my brother can't stand it when I beat him. So we never ever ever compete against each other, even under "friendly" terms. For the most part I had always interpreted my brother's and my reactions towards competition against each other as a sign of how close we really were to each other. In a sense, competition is against the spirit of complete unconditional mutual support and symbiosis. I can take part in competitions, but only against people I don't really care about because in competitions I can get very aggressive. If I were in a competition with my brother, he'd either have to be on my team, or we'd tell each other that the winner has to do some kind of chore or nasty thing so that winning wouldn't be all that desirable. Alternatively we'd have to really spin it in such a way that he or I didn't win out of a desire for personal glory, but rather to defeat other opponents or some other thing.

I wonder if your friend really enjoys competing and winning against his own friends, or if he prefers more cooperative play. That would be a very good way to see how he really feels about you guys as good friends.

At least he didn't do what one of my ex friends did at my friend's b-day party. He got all dramatic and angry and pulled out a key and dug it into his skin until it bled right in front of us. He's a messed up little bastard. I've cut too so I'm not judging on that, but at the party... Anyway, I'm glad I don't hang out with him anymore.

Time to sum up my ex-friend, he always tries to make arguments, and pulls up that sarcastic smile all the time, whenever I eat popcorn, candy or anything like that, he just pulls his massive fist down there eating all he can get without asking, he is so ignorant over facts, he treats my aspie friend like s*** at his parents house, they argue with them all the time, and the idiot does not give a s***, then in the party, he suddenly talked about wanting to make the net go down, and punishing my aspie friend for leaving him. He is so CHILDISH, DAMN!! ! Then my friend called him "Insecure p****", and threatened him. My ex-friend doesn't care about us because the FIRST thing he said when arguing was, "you have to pay me much money for leaving because you have eaten at our place!" It sounds like he only cares about money and not his friends!! ! He only had us to begin with, now he has NOBODY, and I understand!!

Doesn't sound like any kind of loss to me. If anything you should have done it sooner.

does it shock you???

and fountains... uhm... by a bridge? you sure this is in trondheim?
we went to a relatively new one anyway. our favorite one burned down on 17-mai

yeah, trondheim has this habit of burning down...

both in the past, and in recent years. we like fire!

Thank god we didn't keept you.

you didnt _get_ to keep us

the trondheim region was the only one re-conquered by force ;]
you should know. it turned out to be the worst mass-loss of swedish troops in history ;]
(of course, they lost to cold but still. good for giggles ; ]

also, the swedish king got sniped in oslo, which also marked the end of violence against the nordbaggar!

meh, im glad we're friends
we originally WERE friends too, it was denmark who was throwing sweden and norway into wars

whatcha say? lets go get denmark!

You Scandinavians are weird.
Just kidding, don't hurt me