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RockDrummer616
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20 Apr 2010, 10:42 pm

I took another break from here for a while but I need to come back. Nothing major has happened in my life, but every day things seem to get worse. Maybe it's because my only friend never has time for me anymore. Maybe it's because I can't keep up with my schoolwork. Maybe it's something else. It doesn't matter. Nothing is going to change, and I can't take much more of it. I just don't want to continue this same routine day after day with nothing to look forward to. I don't know what to do and I hope that talking to people here will help a little bit.


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20 Apr 2010, 10:52 pm

I wish I could say it got better as you get older... but the truth is it doesn't. There is a lot more distractions though. Which can be good and bad.

Video games work wonders, or at least did for me at your age. Unfortunately my Capricornian nature kicked in as an adult and I have to find more "productive" things to satisfy me.

But staying busy is the key. Even if it's something as simple as a book of word puzzles, if that's your thing. The world isn't going to get any more interesting, so find something to get absorbed into to kill the time.

It sucks not having someone to confide in. I know. I just got out of a relationship with the person I considered my best friend for 7 years. Now I sit alone in an empty house with nothing to do. That will kill you quicker than anything. That's why I finally came here. Just to throw your voice out there and to hear someone respond does wonders.



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20 Apr 2010, 11:41 pm

RockDrummer616 wrote:
I took another break from here for a while but I need to come back. Nothing major has happened in my life, but every day things seem to get worse. Maybe it's because my only friend never has time for me anymore. Maybe it's because I can't keep up with my schoolwork. Maybe it's something else. It doesn't matter. Nothing is going to change, and I can't take much more of it. I just don't want to continue this same routine day after day with nothing to look forward to. I don't know what to do and I hope that talking to people here will help a little bit.


I know how you're feeling, buddy. I have those exact same feelings and uncertainties. It wouldn't shock me if my life turned out to be as boring and as predictable as it gets. Maybe things will pick up, who knows? And they say that people on the spectrum are fixated on having their exact same routine every day. Personally, that bores the hell out of me. I like variety. I like to do different things from day to day. Good luck to you, dude. I wish you the best.