Why do I feel alone, useless and unwanted?

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I basically have no friends, no job, etc. and the only way I can communicate well is behind a computer screen due to the fact that I am not a social person, shopaholic, socialite, etc.

Whenever I post somewhere, the thread usually dies shortly thereafter and I often wonder if it's because I'm not welcome on a forum.

Sometimes, if not most of the time, I feel that my gf doesn't want me around because she feels and thinks that I'm unhappy living with her.

I'm basically at my wits end.

I just don't wanna be in this world anymore, in fact, I should've never been born

As is the same for most of us.



I pay little, if any attention to who the poster is and choose to respond based on the topic and whether or not I have any input. Frequently I read a post and simply have nothing to say. It has absolutely nothing to do with who posted it.



Women have a biological component that drives them to see after the well being of their mates. She wants you to be happy and it might be discouraging for her if she cannot cheer you up. But you HAVE a girlfriend so that makes you the envy of many men on here.



NT's might "make the world go around" but they "stand on the shoulder's of giants" and those "giants" were certainly not NT.

The world needs individuals like us who can't help but to think and perceive the world differently. We are the element which causes the leaps in human advancement.

I feel much of the same way you do. I feel like I never should have been born as well. Kinda wish there was just a switch you could flip if you didnt wanna live anymore.

hey, at least you were able to rate a gf in the first place. that is a lot better than lots of us hermits here on WP.

I know this dosent help because I feel the same way and posted something similar before, but I do feel the same as you, I still wonder why I'm here, why I havent been shot dead yet, I see no reason for me to live, I am no use to people around me, no special skill, can't do anything a normal teen can do, and even though I have peoplee around me who say they love me I don't feel loved and I certainly feel lonely, I guess all I can say is why am I still here I haven't found any purpose for me so what is so damn important that I need to suffer like this, I never Hurt anyhow else what did I do to deserve this????

I also feel that way a lot of the time, and it can be hard to accept. But I'm trying to live with who I am and all the circumstances which arise as a result. It's not easy, in fact it's pretty darn tough, but I have to stop comparing myself to others who I perceive to have more of the "good stuff". I guess my life was meant to be different with different tests and pitfalls. Maybe for me and you a just few people in our lives is enough. Maybe our level of achievement is different to others, so don't feel too down and learn to like what's there, even though I can understand why people like us find that very difficult.

I hope that things get better, for you. Hang in, there.

I can relate. I've been feeling that way a lot...like I wish I'd never been born.

~Kate

I feel the same way Invincible, I wish I was like your name, but I am having trouble fitting in on WP, I really like alot to the people here
but I think its better if I leave on good terms, rather then have a huge meltdown again, I share alot of the same issues you talked about, and its getting to be to much. You should know you are not alone, there are people here that care, and offer good advice, you have more going then some guys on this forum.

I feel much the same nowadays...

I wish I was alot more like my name Friskey

I wouldn't say envy, but my sympathy meter hit the bottom when i read that.

I think i`m worse guys, my life just sucks so bad. I am a Black guy in University in Japan, i dont have friends,people just stare at me and when they talk to me they`ll be just asking about Africa and they leave, all the girls i meet and go on a date with they just never reply to me again the next day, i dont talk too much or too little, i think i am the most boring person alive. i dont have any special skills too, sometimes i just feel like banging my head on the walls, i feel pain inside and i want to feel it outside too. I used to have a 3.7 GPA not m down to 2.6, i cant organize my own stuff anymore, i`m so shy to hang out with others, i get so nervous when given a chance to speak in from of people, i dont have a social life, i spend 90% of my time in my room on the computer just watching movies, cartoons or porn, i think about death a lot these days, i dont even know why i`m living, we have a counselor at school but my mind keeps telling me i`m Ok. i hate myself everytime i look in the mirror i just want to smash it. why am i not normal?????

I dont know how i`m going to help myself out of this

I can relate too.

I can relate OP, we just gotta hang on guys, life can be unbearble for us but you gotta find the things that make it worth living.

Yah thats true guys lets just hang in there, even though our negatives outweighs our positives lets just try to put the little nice things we have ahead and focus all our energy on that. we are not alone.

i always think maybe if i get a girl all my problems will end, so from now on i want to fight for that, maybe having some1 to think about, talk to, love and hold tight, will bring back a smile on my sad face,