I am a sick mysoginist jealous of women.

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21 Aug 2010, 6:24 pm

lotusblossom wrote:
Im sorry Ive been thoughtless and tactless, Im really really sorry.


i would feel this way with anyone i date though, you havent been that tactless. i have a bizzare on/off religious past and a strange family on top of shyness and AS.

i think its just me feeling bad about being immature and child-like, that is something i have felt bad about always, i hate being immature.

I dont think its a gender thing either as lots of aspie women complain about being too nervous or immature such as hale bop, erisad, alycat etc. And there are lots of mature and respected men on the forum. There are mature and respected celibate people too.

i just feel like theres such an uphill hard road to being a normal adult, i have to have sex with a normal amount of people, i have to live independently, i have to drive. i mean i feel at different times like i have to do all that. there all things i have felt bad about.

women with exciting sexual pasts just seem so emotionaly strong and powerful to me, like they could manipulate me and mess me around, as they have an easy grasp of something i found so hard.



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21 Aug 2010, 6:26 pm

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Yeah...I'm sorry I blew up.

It's a sensitive subject with me.


don't worry about that, i delibrately dug into the horriblest thoughts in my head to play the role of my worst possible self. i would be angry at myself, it is a trollish post, even though it is the trash in my head. i knew people would be angry, i am braced for it on behalf of all horrible women hating men.



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21 Aug 2010, 6:30 pm

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Yeah...I'm sorry I blew up.

It's a sensitive subject with me.


don't worry about that, i delibrately dug into the horriblest thoughts in my head to play the role of my worst possible self. i would be angry at myself, it is a trollish post, even though it is the trash in my head. i knew people would be angry, i am braced for it on behalf of all horrible women hating men.


thanks. :)

I think we all have emotions that we shouldn't. The important thing is dealing with them the right way.

At least you were adult enough that you deal with them by complaining on a forum rather than assaulting a real woman somewhere.


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21 Aug 2010, 6:31 pm

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Please don't be so hard on Mutate. He's trying to sort things out.

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I dont even like having sex itself that much (without love)

I think that's something a lot of women are looking for and would value, men have a reputation for being out for the easy lay.

It's to be expected that a person who does not have a firm handle on these social interactions would be frustrated and have negative feelings.
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I know thats a sick and wrong way to think but i cant help it.


Putting Mutate down as if he has actually done any of those things, or would really do them if it became possible, is counterproductive and unhelpful. I vaguely remember in the book, One Flew Over the Cukoo's nest, there was a large powerfully built character called the Chief, who described the central character Randle as bigger than himself although he was smaller, because he had greater inner strength. I think that's the kind of thing he's talking about, the inner power rather than outside appearance. A relatively small, weak woman, does have

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DO NOT EVER use your Aspergers as an excuse for your behavior.

I don't believe it was offered as an excuse, but as an explanation. We all know how that can affect one's perceptions of what is going on and not usually in a useful way! the power to make a man feel inadequate and pathetic, or a man may feel so with her even though she is not actually perceiving him that way. I found that I had a hard time as a young woman with (undiagnosed) Asperger's drawing boundaries and saying no, because I had come to rely on other people having a better idea than I did in general about what was appropriate. So I got a little more experience than I really needed. People who brag about their many encounters probably have been dealing with that same issue of boundaries and appropriateness.

Over the years I have always tried to treat fellow humans, including men, in a non-hurtful way. I have not always succeeded. Some of the times I failed is because of my own Asperger's factoring in.

Mutate, remember that what people say they have done is not always what they have really done! Remember that what is good for someone else is all wrong for you, sometimes. Sexual conquest is not what defines the kind of relationship most of us want. Be patient. You can always lie about your experiences like everyone else does! :) I suspect you will come across someone who you like as a friend first, before sex comes into it, and that will be a more rewarding experience for you--even if it is not permanent, you will know what it is like and what to look for. And expect it to take time. Most of us who are in relationships took rather longer than average to find them.


Thanks Polgara. To be honest though no women i knew really "braged" to me about their exes, they just tell me about them. Often their stories are horrible and they had relationships they hated. It doesnt stop me feeling jealous though as i think "it made them so wise and clever how do i catch up".



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21 Aug 2010, 6:48 pm

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I dont even like having sex itself that much (without love)


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I just wish i could go into a brothel with 40 or 50 women and have sex with them all, just penetrate them all quicky once in turn


Whoops.

Looks like someone's having consistency problems. :wink:


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21 Aug 2010, 6:51 pm

I said i would do it quicky as i would not enjoy it, but would only do it to be the equal of normal adults and feel i can catch up with them and not be vunerable to being made to feel stupid.



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21 Aug 2010, 6:53 pm

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Looks like someone's having consistency problems. :wink:


do you see me claiming to be mentally heathly or consistent.



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21 Aug 2010, 6:53 pm

Bethie wrote:
Mutate wrote:
I dont even like having sex itself that much (without love)


Mutate wrote:
I just wish i could go into a brothel with 40 or 50 women and have sex with them all, just penetrate them all quicky once in turn


Whoops.

Looks like someone's having consistency problems. :wink:


There's no inconsistency there.


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21 Aug 2010, 7:05 pm

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Bethie wrote:
Mutate wrote:
I dont even like having sex itself that much (without love)


Mutate wrote:
I just wish i could go into a brothel with 40 or 50 women and have sex with them all, just penetrate them all quicky once in turn


Whoops.

Looks like someone's having consistency problems. :wink:


There's no inconsistency there.


Right, and I'm a beef-eating "vegetarian".

:D


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21 Aug 2010, 7:16 pm

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They really don't know how lucky they are. These women on WP go on about how awesome sex is and how they cant go without it, all the great sexual experiences they've had, I just want to slap them, simply for having it so good. I know thats wrong, but i'm only human.


yes we are only human after all. even attractive women share my grumpiness. i find it really hard to make moves on people anyway, like draining.



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21 Aug 2010, 7:17 pm

Bethie wrote:
Moog wrote:
Bethie wrote:
Mutate wrote:
I dont even like having sex itself that much (without love)


Mutate wrote:
I just wish i could go into a brothel with 40 or 50 women and have sex with them all, just penetrate them all quicky once in turn


Whoops.

Looks like someone's having consistency problems. :wink:


There's no inconsistency there.


Right, and I'm a beef-eating "vegetarian".

:D


Well ok if this imaginary orgy ever happens i might enjoy it a little i admit that.



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22 Aug 2010, 6:44 am

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F u c k you. You think women are stronger than you? How small are you? 5'4? 110 lbs?? Do you have to worry about being raped? Did you have to put up with being groped and shoved around as a teen? Did you? Tell me?

Try being in my body, or ANY other average woman's and then come back to me and spew that crap.

You are indeed a sick misogynist, and you deserve to die.


Wow, you really need to get a grip - the OP said nothing wrong. He explained how he FEELS. He's trying to figure his own head out. He hasn't hurt anyone. Kudos to him for being brave enough to say it out loud. Seriously, run along, and please don't forget the tiny, irrelevant off-topic monkey on your back, because whatever is bothering you doesn't deserve any further attention in this discussion.



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22 Aug 2010, 8:19 am

Bethie wrote:
Mutate wrote:
I dont even like having sex itself that much (without love)


Mutate wrote:
I just wish i could go into a brothel with 40 or 50 women and have sex with them all, just penetrate them all quicky once in turn


Whoops.

Looks like someone's having consistency problems. :wink:


Not inconsistent. He doesn't like sex without love but feels he is inferior if he hasn't had sex.

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Wow, you really need to get a grip - the OP said nothing wrong. He explained how he FEELS. He's trying to figure his own head out. He hasn't hurt anyone. Kudos to him for being brave enough to say it out loud. Seriously, run along, and please don't forget the tiny, irrelevant off-topic monkey on your back, because whatever is bothering you doesn't deserve any further attention in this discussion.


See my later posts, and grow up yourself.

Would it be brave if I said I hated men, and had impulses to castrate them, although I'd never acted on them? Would you tell me I was being brave and give sympathy?


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22 Aug 2010, 12:15 pm

off topic

Mutate, here is a radio program you would like, its very moving, touching and inspiring
its an interview with the late Tony Judt (historian) as he was dying of motor neuron disease.

http://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/b00strxn



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22 Aug 2010, 6:37 pm

I hope you quit being so judgmental of a person over a simple freak out.


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