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29 Sep 2010, 5:44 pm

My boyf is away until next Tuesday, and our flat is horribly empty without him.
I usually would then hang out with my best friend, but he's gone away with my boyf.
I don't really feel comfortable around anyone but these two people.

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29 Sep 2010, 8:09 pm

Sorry to hear you're lonely. Do you have something to do? Knit, read a book, draw?

Till next Tuesday isn't that long, whatever it feels like. Might hurt now, but not soon.

Your e-friends are still here, right?

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29 Sep 2010, 11:46 pm

your best friend is a guy and he is friends with your boyfriend?

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30 Sep 2010, 12:13 am

SaNcheNuSS wrote:

your best friend is a guy and he is friends with your boyfriend?

My thought exactly.

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30 Sep 2010, 12:16 am

menintights wrote:

SaNcheNuSS wrote:

your best friend is a guy and he is friends with your boyfriend?

My thought exactly.

haha. Doesn't look good does it?

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30 Sep 2010, 3:24 am

SaNcheNuSS wrote:

menintights wrote:

SaNcheNuSS wrote:

your best friend is a guy and he is friends with your boyfriend?

My thought exactly.

haha. Doesn't look good does it?

What's wrong with that? :S
It's through my best friend I met my boyfriend.

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01 Oct 2010, 9:39 am

You have internet access. Much of the world's collective knowledge is a few keystrokes away.

Solitude is also great for developing a better understanding of your relationships, since you're not actually experiencing them.

Also, barring the potential for gaslighting and abuse, I don't see the problem with your best friend being a male friend of your lover...

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01 Oct 2010, 9:53 am

primaloath wrote:

I just don't cope well on my own.
I spend too much time thinking about stuff, which makes me over analyse it, which makes me do stupid things.
It's only Friday and i've already made a few bad choice since they left.

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01 Oct 2010, 2:09 pm

emlion wrote:

SaNcheNuSS wrote:

menintights wrote:

SaNcheNuSS wrote:

your best friend is a guy and he is friends with your boyfriend?

My thought exactly.

haha. Doesn't look good does it?

What's wrong with that? :S
It's through my best friend I met my boyfriend.

Nothing wrong with that at all.

Do you have any other friends you can hang out with?

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01 Oct 2010, 2:42 pm

Asp-Z wrote:

emlion wrote:

SaNcheNuSS wrote:

menintights wrote:

SaNcheNuSS wrote:

your best friend is a guy and he is friends with your boyfriend?

My thought exactly.

haha. Doesn't look good does it?

What's wrong with that? :S
It's through my best friend I met my boyfriend.

Nothing wrong with that at all.

Do you have any other friends you can hang out with?

Not really. I mean I have other friends, but I don't feel safe around them without my boyf or best friend there.

I only have 4 days until they come back. :/ I hope I can hold out until then.

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02 Oct 2010, 7:09 am

You can hang out with us, for the next 4 days.

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02 Oct 2010, 12:45 pm

It's always good to have the opportunity to make bad decisions, as you wouldn't otherwise learn not to make them in the future. Being on your own, able to make your own decisions, is a benefit in and of itself.

What kinds of bad choices did you make?

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03 Oct 2010, 5:43 am

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self-harm.
drugs.
spending too much money.
cancelling my councillor for 2 sessions.
drinking.

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05 Oct 2010, 3:56 am

We'll be here to keep you company until then. If you don't feel comfortable around us, hopefully you will soon. Feel free to PM or AIM me, that goes to any one else who is feeling lonely as well Try to keep yourself occupied with healthy things, the time will go by a lot faster.

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05 Oct 2010, 4:41 am

Stellar wrote:

We'll be here to keep you company until then. If you don't feel comfortable around us, hopefully you will soon. Feel free to PM or AIM me, that goes to any one else who is feeling lonely as well

Try to keep yourself occupied with healthy things, the time will go by a lot faster.

thanks. (:
the boyf came home already because on Sunday night, i had a really bad night and couldn't cope.
So things are much better now.

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08 Oct 2010, 3:18 am

This is the type of girl who will cheat.

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