I'm talking to this guy on the phone constantly........

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I already have a boyfriend (whose neurotypical) this guy has AS and he seems to really like me. He admitted it to me on Facebook. I see him in the base room at school (its a room for kids with intergration aides or any ASD disorder or ADD) I was speechless when he told me. But the thing I'm most speechless about was on our last phone call he had an emotional talk with me at one stage. He knew how unhappy I was about being teased by other boys and exploited by people. I was crying, and he then started crying and said "I love you, you're a beautiful girl" He got really emotional over me. I was a little shocked. Do his feelings really go that deep? He was telling me if any boy ever hurt me he would hurt him back and how he didn't want to see me suffer. Awwwwww! He is a real cutie. So what do you guys think?

You're on the way to cheating. Be careful.

I had a similar situation where a girl (I strongly suspect she has Aspergers) was having issues with her boyfriend, and said we should go to the movies... JUST ME AND HER. So since I didn't know what to do, I said "Yeah, sure" and didn't set a date, figuring she would forget. She did. Good thing. We would also talk on the phone constantly.

Probably. Does he know you have a boyfriend? Also, how do you feel about him? Does it feel like you might fall?

I would be a bit concerned about him wanting to protect you. Maybe tell him something like this: "Thank you for having my back with these boys. Really it's not that big of a problem and I can mostly handle it myself. Before stepping in, please let me try to take care of it. If I need your help, I will let you know." He'll probably be pleased with that if not flattered.