Fed up of passive aggressive women

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I've been isolated by my friends, who basically have slowly removed me from their group. It's all down to one girl, as she's been slowly poisoning the mind of all of them, especially my best friend. Now she refuses to talk about issues, lies all the time and makes statues on facebook plainly aimed at me. She obviously wants a reaction but I'm not giving her one. I'm so lonely. They used to accept me for my differences. Now they use them against me, and the latest trick is at parties to turn the music up so loud I have a spaz attack. It 'entertains' them.
The main reason I haven't told them to get lost, is my best friend has been supported so much by our family. She was made homeless due to abuse in her home and we took her in for 6 months. Then she got her own place and we paid for half the stuff there. My mum even spent a £500 last Christmas to make sure she had as much as our family, and now she's done it again for this Christmas. I don't want my mum to have spent all that money for nothing.
I guess another reason is fear. I don't want to be alone.

Being alone isn't so bad, you know. Better that than to end up being abused by hateful people. That includes your 'best friend' - if she chooses them over you she's no longer a best friend, or even a friend. She's a nobody.

Simply stand up and walk away, letting them stew in their own bitterness and bile. Life's too short.

Good luck.

Sometimes it's better to be alone, than it is to be around backstabbers who don't give a rat's ass about you.

Dear Cockney Rebel, or Mick, You have,once again, hit the nail on the head. Your comment should be framed and placed on the wall of everyone with Asperger's, as a reminder. Thank you for coming right out and saying it...Sylkat

Your family is giving a lot to a best friend who really is not your friend. You & your family would be better off without that leach in your lives

I don't really understand how NTs can be so stupid... they annoyed you "for the fun" because of one girl... ?

Ask your "best friend" about that. If she can't answer, it's not your friend anymore, in my opinion. Be alone can be better than can be with "backstabbers".

Being alone, too, is a temporary state.

An acceptable one to endure while you redirect your energy to finding some friends that don't suck.

monkees4va, you do not exist for someone else's amusement. You do not need hurtful people around you. If your best friend has chosen fitting in with the herd over you and your feelings, she has lost out. It may be a difficult time right now but be strong, move on, and keep your dignity.