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14 May 2012, 12:48 pm

CornerPuzzlePieces wrote:
"Corner" is the adjective, if you must shorten it then please, call me "puzzlepieces".

Hmm. Well I do see your point, however I am not laughing at her. I found the notion of completing a 100mile sprint only to drop at the 1meter mark amusing, I apologize if that was interpreted as mockery.

I don't mock people with depression. I know what it feels like to be in that pit.

However I don't get this "there, there" attitude that people seem to offer whenever depression is found. Helping the person come to terms with it, to understand it and to find ways of controlling it- that is what she needs. If I could offer it in person I would in a heartbeat!

If one want's to stop going outside because you keep getting sunburned, you don't conjure up a ferocious dog image to scare yourself inside.. that's taking a step in the wrong direction! You find reasons to stay inside for the moment. Like hobbies.. you see what I mean?

I also don't think crying on her boyfriends shoulder is the right response, it will cause more harm than good in the long run. If you need support that is fine, but the things you tackle yourself are what make us who we are. Don't ever give that up!


OK if you weren't laughing what is this
' HAHAHAHA. So you passed all that nonsense and then at the VERY end you said "Hey, guys. I'm not going to do it because i'm scared of going someplace worse!"

And not everyone can deal with it alone, if you can great........but some people really do need support.


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14 May 2012, 12:53 pm

CornerPuzzlePieces wrote:

Hmm. Well I do see your point, however I am not laughing at her. I found the notion of completing a 100mile sprint only to drop at the 1meter mark amusing, I apologize if that was interpreted as mockery.

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I also don't think crying on her boyfriends shoulder is the right response, it will cause more harm than good in the long run. If you need support that is fine, but the things you tackle yourself are what make us who we are. Don't ever give that up!



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14 May 2012, 1:22 pm

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CornerPuzzlePieces wrote:

Hmm. Well I do see your point, however I am not laughing at her. I found the notion of completing a 100mile sprint only to drop at the 1meter mark amusing, I apologize if that was interpreted as mockery.

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I also don't think crying on her boyfriends shoulder is the right response, it will cause more harm than good in the long run. If you need support that is fine, but the things you tackle yourself are what make us who we are. Don't ever give that up!


So you think only the things one tackles all on their lonesome are what make people who they are? I gotta disagree there but I don't want to derail this anymore I just didn't think the OP deserved to get laughed at just because you disagree with the reasoning that is helping them with their suicidal thinking.


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14 May 2012, 1:47 pm

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Very well. However I invite you to actually read what I wrote, you will find it has a hopeful tone and not a negative one.



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14 May 2012, 2:23 pm

CornerPuzzlePieces, that's enough.
xCarlax didn't come here to have you sniggering or lecturing her about what helped, and this is the wrong forum to try it in.

Go and find another forum or there will be repercussions.


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15 May 2012, 2:15 am

Dear CornerPuzzlePeices, be happy, im back in my mood,
just like nearly everyday, but stronger because of you.
Congratulations give yourself a pat on the back,
i hope your happy, true support is obviously something you lack.
Enjoying negatively affecting someone elses path?
Good, i hope you have a great laugh.
nothing can be certain, specially when someones hurtin,
so have a look in the mirror, and open up that closed curtain.



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15 May 2012, 10:27 am

I think CornerPuzzlePieces means well. He may be as subtle as a sledgehammer but in the end he means well. He could have just ignored Carlax which, in the end, ignorance of someone in need is worse than a little bit of well-meaning intervention.



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15 May 2012, 11:11 am

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I think CornerPuzzlePieces means well. He may be as subtle as a sledgehammer but in the end he means well. He could have just ignored Carlax which, in the end, ignorance of someone in need is worse than a little bit of well-meaning intervention.


I kind of got the impression he was more concerned with proving the OP wrong then providing support.


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15 May 2012, 11:25 am

xCarlax wrote:
Dear CornerPuzzlePeices, be happy, im back in my mood,
just like nearly everyday, but stronger because of you.
Congratulations give yourself a pat on the back,
i hope your happy, true support is obviously something you lack.
Enjoying negatively affecting someone elses path?
Good, i hope you have a great laugh.
nothing can be certain, specially when someones hurtin,
so have a look in the mirror, and open up that closed curtain.


sorry your feeling worse....I know I can get pretty low just from people saying things that upset me, and I know it can be frustrating. Remember though for the most part people here are pretty supportive and understanding most of the time. But no website with interaction between people is perfect unfortunatly.


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15 May 2012, 1:34 pm

xCarlax wrote:
i found this last night,

Spiritual research Foundation

i have been feeling quite suicidal the last month, also posted on here a couple of days ago, and thank you, got some helpful and understanding responses,

this page very much made me think about alot of stuff though, and it might just do with you, clearly suicide=hell, and compared to earth, im thinking hell is alot worse....
soooo.... i ask you to read, because no matter how much we want to, unless you'd like to experience a sub group of hell, or the 7th plane, please dont! :(
THAT would be the worst choice, terribly worser than here on earth, i see anyhow.


This link is the entire reason WHY i want to commit...
I can't tell what is real or not
I'm tired of being used as the Illuminati's decoy aka crucifixion figure



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15 May 2012, 6:57 pm

......i've been living with demons my whole life, so it doesnt change for me no, but the article is just to help with a bit of hope when im feeling down, in the end it wont stop anything from happening,
but if it helps someone when there feeling down like me.... then thats great :)