Wow, sorry to hear about your situation! As you're probably all too well aware in situations like these you have to cross all your t's and dot all your i's as one slip-up will mitigate your credibility and as a man you can't afford to have that happen whatsoever being that the system is already slanted against you. While I can't say that I've been married or even in a relationship for that manner, I have dealt with many manipulative people (both women and men) be it at work or in my personal life. Half the time it seemed as though they were far better at lying to people than I was at telling the truth. What I will say is that it helps to have witnesses. Anyway, just wanted to chime in and offer some support.