calandale wrote:
I used to love just sitting on my porch watching people. Sometimes they would initiate conversation. It was nice. Now, so many go by, but they're always chatting away on their damned phones. You can't even stop them to ask the time of day.
It seems royally rude to interupt someone whilst they are working. Ah, a couple of words here and there, but I would never try to enter into a conversation with a cashier (or a waiter/waitress) - if they initiate it, that's fine, but otherwise I'd just be taking advantage of a captive audience, and I know how much I hate when that is forced on me.
This is going to make you even more of an outcast but....
when they are talking on their phones (or just about to) it's simple,, just say: 'How Rude' --> and to make it feel a little more comfy, say it like that little blonde girl in that US family show that was shot in a San Fran home.
-The ones walking on the street.... put your elbows on the fence and stand! -as they walk past, put your hand down infront of them, when they look at you for making the obstruction - wave and smile --guranteed they will remmeber you for at least half the day. -oh and it can be fun too -why do you think kds throw rocks at cars, and lately the rocks have been getting bigger, and life threatening? (The world speaks to the individual, just as the individual can speak to the world)
I have a mate... you know what he does all day?
He walks around the area he lives, and pionts out everything wrong with an individual - now he doesn't out right say - oh you have an ugly face,,(Actualy come to think of it, he has said that one) , he tries to come up with interesting comedic pionts about an individual,,, slowly he will end up talking to the individual for upto an hour, just standing thier on the street. -he spends his whole day extroverted, and is spreading more good locally than the laboratory technician is trying to do gene sequencing (you can't be a scientist in a dismal world, especially if you feel dismal yourself)
---You see why the world has it's problems --we are all addicted.