If someone you've been together with a while leaves you

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How do you cope?

I can't stop thinking of her. The house is still filled with her things. Everything I do in life reminds me of her, reminds me how many times I let her down, how many times I was too tired and too stressed to see her pain?

I was so narrow minded, and I got so complacent, I let her slip through my fingers, and she's gone forever.

And whenever I beg for her to come back she won't. Now I can't contact her at all. Have never felt pain like this in my life. I look in the mirror and I'm ugly, and she was so beautiful, she was so perfect, and she was mine. Now she's not.

Can't eat, or sleep, or stop crying.

Wait a minute. You have an infant child together, and you can't contact her at all? How is that possible, legally?

I know this pain... man, you have my deepest sympathies.

I had a really good counselor (that was almost free!) If it weren't for her I'd have gone nuts! Not every counselor is good...

Hang in there... and get the help you need.

[safe A-frame man-hugs from a fellow survivor]