Boyfriend of almost 3 years left me.

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BeggingTurtle
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20 Apr 2014, 9:54 pm

I know how you feel.

When I entered high school, I was already in a 1 year relationship with a girl. Girls thought she was just a friend and just pushed her aside but I turned them away. But because of the pressure, we broke up. I had trouble saying my feelings fro her sometimes and so did she. We wanted to keep everyone out of it, but our friends and the gossip of the class just rained down on us and it was for the best. If neither of us was comfortable for the relationship, then it couldn't happen.

I hate heartbreak.


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20 Apr 2014, 9:59 pm

I am really sorry to hear this.
It is a very cruel way to behave. I hate to say it, but the behaviour suggests that there is a third person involved.
You will meet someone else.



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21 Apr 2014, 3:19 am

Just get another one its that simple!


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21 Apr 2014, 10:25 am

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22 Apr 2014, 2:56 am

I said everything that I could, and tried my best. All I can do is hope he comes around at this point. But he's leaving pretty quickly it turns out since his job has a temp assignment in Cali. I wish that I could get angry at him. But all I can do is cry.



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22 Apr 2014, 4:34 am

Let it go. It's okay to cry because that's part of having a broken heart, but don't stalk him. Keep the honour to yourself, as we say in Dutch.