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29 Jul 2014, 7:38 pm

I hear ya.



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29 Jul 2014, 7:55 pm

well...regardless of what you think you were doing, you may want to take a hard look at the behaviors that led to your being called a stalker multiple times and having the cops brought in. The fact that you're calling the first one "bitchy b***h" says to me that something's probably up with your behavior that you're not aware of. (For calibration purposes: A lady who was texting while she was driving her giant SUV rearended me and my daughter pretty hard a couple years ago. If I'd had a less sturdy car we might've been seriously injured. The lady got angry, blamed me, refused to give me her insurance info, and called the cops -- on herself. And was furious to find herself ticketed and responsible. It had not occurred to me to call her a b***h.)

You may want to have a friend go through your messages with you, or watch you interact with women, and see what's going on.



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29 Jul 2014, 8:08 pm

^ Oh? I know, I've made my share of mistakes, but sometimes, I also feel part of it isn't my fault.


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10 Aug 2014, 8:00 pm

Wow a few weeks since I posted this? @tarantella64: The girl said she was bipolar; which may have contributed to her actions.


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15 Aug 2014, 6:49 pm

Okay, but that really doesn't change anything I said.



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14 Sep 2014, 6:37 am

I really feel you bro, I too have been unfairly accused of stalking and sexual harassment plenty of times in the past. Granted some of the stuff I did in high school would legitimately pass for sexual harassment if hugging and kissing women without their permission counts, but I at least have never groped anyone or made lewd sexual comments towards women. Other times, I would either be straight out set up for things I didn't do and get punished for it or have people spread rumors about me saying I was a stalker and people I barely even knew would be terrified of me and want nothing to do with me, and it sucks that this keeps happening even in college. I have already been accused of stalking by another girl whose boyfriend is probably spreading rumors about me being a stalker, and because he's been stalking my Tumblr and YouTube accounts and sees what I like and repost (a lot of it is related to anti-feminism/anti-SJW stuff) he has been harassing me for almost a year and calling me a "stalker" and a "rape apologist" among other things, and even before he once said to my face that he thinks I'm going to rape someone :( I really f*****g hope he doesn't try to set me up for a false rape/sexual harassment accusation to try and have me expelled from school and end up in legal trouble. Also in April there was another girl who I had talked to only a few times and all I did was say hi to her and she turns the treadmill off and runs from me terrified and pointed me out to one of the security guards. He didn't come up to me thank god, and I tried to ask her why she was afraid of me even though I hadn't done anything to her and all she gives me was "Look, we're not friends, we're not part of the same lives" and she runs off and all I can judge from this is that either she's prejudiced against me because of my disability or someone is going around spreading false rumors about me knowing that my disability makes me an easier target for such things.

It really, really sucks when you don't have perfect social skills and don't know what to expect of people's reactions to you, and it sucks even worse when stuff like feminism and rape culture hysteria and especially people like Elliot Rodger are only making the social stigma towards men on the autism spectrum even worse.



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16 Sep 2014, 9:49 pm

^ I see. *hugs* Hey, if you want to talk to me, I am ALWAYS here, man. I'm glad that I am not alone on this front. And that I have allies that will ALWAYS have my back. :)


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17 Sep 2014, 2:05 pm

Truth be told, I've had girls call me "Casey Anthony" and "Jerry Sandusky" to my face.... I've also heard worse things, which I will not repeat here.


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17 Sep 2014, 2:08 pm

I'm amazed nobody has called me Ted Kaczynski, as they've called me everything else.



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17 Sep 2014, 4:52 pm

^ Like what?


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17 Sep 2014, 4:55 pm

equestriatola wrote:
^ Like what?

like too many to describe, but a few would be-

ret*d
dweeb
dork
doofus
lightweight
putz
schmuck
doorknob

capiche?



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17 Sep 2014, 5:01 pm

I see. I've been called worse, as well.

But, even so, I dream of the day my woman arrives and I move to Hollywood with her......


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17 Sep 2014, 5:03 pm

equestriatola wrote:
I see. I've been called worse, as well. But, even so, I dream of the day my woman arrives and I move to Hollywood with her......

nobody can take your dreams from you without your consent. hold onto them and cherish them. they are precious.



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17 Sep 2014, 5:22 pm

And then I am one day, going to Japan. :)


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17 Sep 2014, 5:26 pm

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And then I am one day, going to Japan. :)

save all your pennies and play the lotto, then you will have enough money for such, as it is a VERY expensive place for americans to visit due to our perpetually unfavorable exchange rate.



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17 Sep 2014, 5:29 pm

^ The former is nigh-impossible for me to do (Personal reasons), but the latter? I think I have more better luck that way.


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