why do people care if others they hate kill themselves?

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guessing thats the saying and not a question.

also yeah i did but aspies are banned from joining the military.

when I was in [the early 80s] I couldn't sneeze without bumping into an [un-dx'ed] aspie. one of my child shrinks said I had autistic traits [among other things] and it was on my record, and with a medical/psychiatric waiver they let me in. things were laxer back then I suppose, compared to now. too bad you and me couldn't have been in the military together back then, though you'd probably have wanted to keep your distance from me.

think if i was my age in the 30s-80s things would probably be different for me.

yeh, timing is everything. I think if I was me but in the 60s I would have been a much better fit [as a hippie or beatnik].

To answer your original question, because they like to be in other people's business and have opinions over what they do. BUT none of them actually want to help anyone because that requires effort. They just want to judge.

Don't give up on dating. You have to keep meeting a lot of people before you find someone you like, who likes you back. I understand getting frustrated at NT women. Maybe you could try to find a nice Aspie girl, or one who is neurodivergent. I've found they're more accepting and understanding. There are women out there in their 30s who aren't interested in settling down, and don't care about status, so keep searching.

Can you talk to your family about them buying innapropriate food? Maybe they would be more considerate if you explained how you need their support, and what an negative impact it's having on you. Would any of them come on a daily walk with you to lessen the anxiety? Could you post an ad online to find a fitness friend that you meet up with to walk together? Alternatively, you could do some excercise inside like aerobics.

suppose that makes sense.

problem is no one will meet me. i get disqualified because I don't have a good job. they'd probably like me if they met me. idk only two aspie women in my area that I messaged were quite rude and mean. one was just never getting back to me, talked more to her sister who didn't think it would work but wished me luck with her, other pushed me to skype despite that it gave me anxiety then when she found out I had a seasonal job only just ended the call and blocked me.
its funny cause she wanted to find other aspies who would be more accepting of her but couldn't accept me so its made me want to avoid aspie women. not that theres that many in my state anyways. not to say I wouldn't try again and get hurt again to give one a shot.

nope they don't' like walking and just nap and watch tv most the time.
as for finding fitness buddy sounds risky and costly. I'd have to fine someone that likes me and my interest. its the walking and talking that makes it doable. we'd walk for hours just talking with my friends. I miss that.

at least you are still young enough to enjoy it when it comes for you.

when what comes ?

also I'm old
<---27 here

when a person willing to engage in whoopee with you comes along, you are still young and youthful and relatively attractive and able to function, as opposed to old and worn out like myself. I am twice your age. now THAT is old.

Sly..please...please don't kill yourself, I don't know you personally but I do seem to relate to you in many ways if you do I will be more alone than ever and it hurts knowing another of my kind similar to me in many ways being gone! I have been there many times I know how you feel it is hard at times I can understand in many ways but the world needs you!

Sly.. can I just say that if I were living in the USA I'd be private messaging you for your number right now. Shooting, outdoors, walks kinda guy eh? You're talking my f*****g language! XD

Not all girls like the same things.. if I might make a suggestion, try and find equestrian or dog people, because as a rule they're attracted to the outdoors, and most all of us would find it much more romantic to take a walk through pretty scenery than to have a date spend loads of money on us (which seems to be what a lot of women are after). I shoot too, and if I could find a guy who would have as much fun as me from being dragged through hedges backwards looking for rabbits then I'd be instantly in love. XDD

^^^
good point, for a lot of us here, very few other people are on our particular wavelength.

Look sly if you need someone to talk to feel free to pm me I know how it feels and I care about you!

And since when is 27 old?

I agree with what Data Lore said. Look for "nature people" who don't care so much about money or looks and want to go to the woods with you!

Do PM Aspie Otaku as soon as you can, and you could also PM me if you want: as I also care about you. I only met my soul mate at age 33 and although we are not currently able to live in the same city, remain soul mates in daily contact, and I can't wait for the day we can be together again.

Because that would pretty much give them the "sociopath" label, which would seriously hurt their reputation (if they have those) and will cause revenge actions against them through social media if all this gets known after you indeed followed their "advice".

if it ever happens which it won't i'd probably be your age so don't see a plus in that. people like you just have ti wait til your 50 and your get girls. thats just makes me want to die more.

also guessing whoopee is sex?
I don't think I'll ever get to have sex again. wish I didn't want it so much or that I could do it with a positue but nope god wouldn't be happy with is cruel joke so he made it so I have to have a emotional connection to enjoy/have sex