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28 Jul 2016, 3:50 pm

sure, stranger coincidences have happened before

i'll just leave you guys to it then


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28 Jul 2016, 3:54 pm

How about we invite you to a Skype chat sometime and you will see that we are not the same person.



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28 Jul 2016, 3:55 pm

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I am sorry to inform you but the IP ranges are very specific. A proxy server address range is not going to match the known T-Mobile IP ranges.

okay, let's say you're right. i'll just leave it at that

...for now

viewtopic.php?t=324326

:D

thanks for giving me material for my research


I responded to that thread.



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28 Jul 2016, 4:00 pm

This thread now has gone from "I don't get along with ASD people" to "let's have a Skype chat".
I consider this an improvement.


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28 Jul 2016, 4:03 pm

Aniihya wrote:
How about we invite you to a Skype chat sometime and you will see that we are not the same person.


I think the link to Xsquadder's youtube page is a clue you guys are not the same person.



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28 Jul 2016, 4:05 pm

Raleigh, how about looking at context.

Initial problem was me being annoyed by the typical autistic traits, however in a way that they are worse than others.

Me offering a chat was the result of anagram suspecting that me and Xsquader were the same person, which we aren't.



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28 Jul 2016, 4:08 pm

^ I know.
I was being facetious.


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28 Jul 2016, 4:21 pm

Aniihya wrote:
How about we invite you to a Skype chat sometime and you will see that we are not the same person.

i appreciate the kind offer, but i don't feel like being doxxed today :)


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28 Jul 2016, 4:26 pm

Well I cannot read things online that are not literal.



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28 Jul 2016, 4:27 pm

Anagram, paranoid much?



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28 Jul 2016, 4:32 pm

Aniihya wrote:
Anagram, paranoid much?

well, if you don't know a way how one thing could lead to the other... i do. and let's face it, you and your many-faced friend sound exactly like the type who would do something like that

i hate skype anyway. i'll pass


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28 Jul 2016, 4:36 pm

Aniihya wrote:
Well androbot, please then quote where I specifically said the other poster was avoiding improvement. If you made an effort to actually read what I wrote you will notice that the avoiding improvement part was in regard to many people on this site and not specifically that person, actually it was more to exclude that person from the criteria because I had only asked that person a question and people hijacked my interaction with him as if it was a me versus him kind of thing. Again it would have never come to this discussion had people not turned it into a conflict. But then again, you just don't listen and then try to turn everything on me.


I don't think the issue is that particular example.
Try stepping out of yourself and look at things from the perspective of others. Put yourself in their place first, instead of going on the defensive.
A lot of people are trying to help in this thread.



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28 Jul 2016, 5:00 pm

Aniihya, with regards to the other thread, would you have done anything differently in hindsight?
For instance, would you have asked the OP if English was their second language?
Because you didn't actually ask that question.


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29 Jul 2016, 12:45 am

I probs would have asked if they had recently emigrated to AU, due to it feeling as if English was their second language. If so I would have said its my third and I struggled when I first learned.



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29 Jul 2016, 1:52 am

^ That would have been a great response.
It shows that you have sympathy for the OP, having gone through the same struggles yourself.

I feel it was just slightly clumsy wording that led to people thinking you were attacking the OP, because you were trying to piece together the situation in your own mind and verbalising your thoughts without editing them for your 'audience'.
I've been guilty of the same thing at times.

I did think that B19's posts seemed unusually harsh.
I did not feel insulted by your posts at all.


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29 Jul 2016, 1:59 am

Well thanks for your understanding Raleigh. A different articulation on my side may have avoided the misunderstanding.