Please write to my son

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Blimey , I thought I was paranoid. What a paranoid bunch of posters

To the OP and her son , hope you find what your looking for here

Yup. I've never seen it. To be fair, moderators aren't really comparing IP accounts all the time. So I imagine that there are multiple account users and that some of them are terrible people. But the only trouble I've seen come of it is from people (presumably falsely) accusing others. It's become comical to me. Everyone seems to think that they are their own Sherlock Holmes or Scooby gang and their massive powers of perception have given them and only them this special insight.

Thats my experience of forums in general , I thought it'd be different here. It must be a human trait.

I think it is. I know I can get this way. Although to me, I don't tend to be interested in double accounts. But I do it about other things. Of course, I think I'm right-er than everyone else - like the whole planet. Everyone is less right than me. LOL

I've been accused of having more than more accounts than I really had but that was under the old staff team and even Alex thought I created a sockpuppet to troll here because some banned member opened an account here using my name and someone else did the same using one of my avatars I used here so they thought it was me. Then for years the new staff thought those accounts were mine despite different IPs. But I had moved location in a year so five different IPs I have had in one year after registering here. I did fine out who did Spokane but I didn't say anything about it to the old staff because I didn't think it was a big deal and it's not like I got in trouble for their actions. But that account doesn't exist anymore because it got deleted by an old staff thinking it was my account but it wasn't.

If you have suspicions of sockpuppetry(intentinally creating multiple threads) report it to the moderators instead of writing a post accusing somebody.

I wasn't accusing anybody, people. I said I thought it at first but gave it the benefit of the doubt.

And FTR, I *was* being supportive.

And what wilburforce said earlier was true, and I don't think there was any need for her to edit her post. They are both acting like delicate flowers, and adding lots of loaded words to everything they say and making it sound more dramatic.

Just for future reference, that ^ doesn't come off as supportive. I know it probably sounded great in your head, but out here in the world, it sounds aggressive.

It's not help unless its helping and its not supportive if it doesn't feel like its supporting.

Yess...get lost.

Have to agree , it could of been worded better.

I apologize to what I said about your mum.

Thank you Cockney Rebel. Now that the thread is back on track, I hope the OP and her son will continue to receive useful feedback with the very important issues of loneliness and isolation, and solutions to them.

I'll be a Sweet Pea and write to you.

I'm going to repeat what I said earlier, but also clarify: You both need therapy if you're not already in it, and if you are, then you need to tailor it to the fact that you two are joined at the hip, which really isn't appropriate for a parent and child. Being close is one thing, but son, you need to be able to stand up for yourself. It's really hard. I know because I used to be codependent on my parent, but with therapy, I've been able to get better. It'll make life happier and easier for you, and it will decrease your anxiety. And it doesn't mean that you love your mom any less. And mom, you've been looking out for your son's best interest and advocating for him for so long that I'm sure it's challenging to realize that you need to let him take some steps on his own. I'm sure that it will help decrease the loneliness and isolation son is experiencing. A therapist will be best able to tell you in what ways you can start stepping back.

I wouldn't mind being a writing buddy, but I'm really busy and would leave you hanging all the time. So I'll have to decline at the present.

This may be a useful link for you and your son, OP:

http://www.itv.com/thismorning/loneliness-helplines

I love final fantasy ! ! I'm currently replaying FFXIII right now. I used to kick it with Naruto and Bleach back in the day. I do watch a lot of anime though



I watch anime on a seasonal basis so I get a lot of new anime every season. This season I'm watching Bubuki Buranki 2, Kiss him not me, Twin Star Exorcist, Uta no Prince 4, Gakuen Handsome, Saiki Kusuo, Nanbaka, Drifters, All Out and Bloodivores. As I said above I did kick it with Naruto and Bleach back in the day but Naruto I didn't get heavily into and Bleach I watched up until 211. At that point I just didn't know what was going on anymore xD I find that when you are older then 21 people generally don't like anime that much, and I am 27. My avatar features characters from a series called kochikame which is pretty obscure outside of Japan but very hilarious if you ever get the chance to check it out.

As I also mentioned prior I like video games too. I play action, adventure, and RPGs mostly. Currently I'm replaying FFXIII. I have ps3 and I got ps4 recently. I also like the tales series, Metal Gear series, Legend of Zelda series, a bit of Mario(not so much in the recent days since I don't have wii U), Prince of persia, Mass Effect, Dragon Age, and the like. I also got into Persona pretty recently, I have persona 4 area(even though I haven't played it in forever) and I can't wait for Persona 5 to come out.

I am also interested in health wellness and fitness. I exercise regularly an hour and a half 5 days a week and I am also vegan.