Male incels hating on autistic female incels like me

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I know the incel community is toxic but I made some videos on youtube about being a true incel til age 24 and still being a technical incel and chronically socially isolated lacking love relationship completely in my life and immediately got spew of accusations that I'm not an incel and misogynist statistics...

What is up with guys who maybe are actual virgins but then say, a female like me who was a complete virgin and knows what it's like to be that tormented and waste the prime of my youth not having relationships, and even manipulated as a virgin by psychopathic sex predators still wasting the prime of my youth and potential for happiness... Only to be taken advantage of by dating site sex predators (who are even garbage tier guys, not even average looking but below average looking, non white guys) one or a few times and then abandoned... And not even have the "real" sex experience these male incels think I've had...

Yeah I've been out with guys, I was treated like a toy to be tried on barely and then abandoned...
And I still can't get a real love relationship with a guy...
A decent guy a few months ago was interested in me but seems to have lost interest in me... Maybe I pushed him away somehow... I do not know why guys constantly lose interest in me... I do not know why no decent man in this world takes interest in me or pursues me....
Never had the great sex consistent relationship male truecels accuse me of having...
Men seem to see me and sense that I have serious emotional problems and don't even try with me...
Then I have to settle for online chatroom or dating site one or a few time meetups with completely awful guys who turn out to wanna try me on and abandon me.... Gross

It's so misogynistic and hateful..
Maybe male incels since they're so exclusive in their men's only club, they should just f**k each other up the butt so they won't be truecels anymore.

Trolls are always looking for someone to attack, and a reason to attack them

The more they hurt inside, the more they like to hurt others.
Try not to let the haters get to you.

Haters gonna hate.

I can't speak for others, but I will just give you my own attitude. When I see female incels, the question pops into my head "so why doesn't any of the female incels date me? It would have solved both of our problems if they did. So apparently I am so repulsive and unattractive that even the most desperate women don't want to date me", and this thought, of course, would lead to resentment.

Stop going to those idiot sites.....and stop listening to nonsense.

^ so your voluntarily celibate or volcel
I just want to be loved and have sex and love back and give sex. I want companionship. I don’t see being validated. I don’t care that others see me low for being single that’s not why I want a relationship. All that matters if if just one woman loved me and I her.
I threw out the no sex before marriage years ago. That was a naive pipe dream of naive 15 year old who thought he’d be successful and married by 24

Hey thanks for the replies and btw my posts are kinda negative I need to work on that...

From a female perspective, also having a hormonal disorder I can understand where male incels are getting with needing sex... Personally having the PCOS disorder I have makes a strong urge inside many times through out the day which gets so strong that it's hard to think about anything else when the urge arises... lol... Like it totally clouds my brain and even makes me physically sick in my stomach until I can dissipate the urge somehow... And sometimes going outside for a walk helps with that but I do sometimes get stuck in a loop wanting to relieve the urge when people are around and so then I just can't do it...And so having a romantic partner to live with in a place exclusive to each other would help that immensely....Sorry that was TMI... And so btw because of my PCOS urges yeah I ended up settling for really garbage guys but quickly realized it wasn't worth it... And yet I'm in a perpetual state thinking I wish I could meet a good guy and fall in love and then have sex...

BTW... I think oxytocin is important and also having relatinships and exploring relationships starting from a young age, something I didn't do... It helps with brain development...
......idk if I can explain more than just that, I met a guy a long time ago and there was a flirting situation for a long period of time on a day to day basis, and that emotional connection to that person just by touch, pheremones, emotional, etc helped my brain development and development as a person immensely.... I can't explain it though sadly it was never more than that heh

As far as sex before marriage I do have a pipe dream about falling in love and having an exclusive relationship from a young age, but this society is messed up and people seem to end up not getting along anymore in their relationships for some reason or they think they can get somebody better or their needs aren't being met so they cheat etc....

Ideally in a utopia if I were to fall in love with a guy and the connection is deep, well I mean sex is fine so long as marriage is the eventual future

Most male incels in the world are probably too busy with their incel lives to know there’s a so-called incel community online, let alone to hate female incels, which they’re unlikely to know any of.

Involuntarily celibate is only about sex.
One could lack the emotional stuff you like want and have lots of sex.
If you don’t desire sex then how could you be involuntarily sexless ?

I’m not questioning your involuntarily relationshipless isolation just the word use.
Example an asexual person who never wants to have sex but wants relationship and can’t get one isn’t involuntarily celibate but is single and isolated not by choice. Only when you want sex and can’t get it are you involuntarily celibate since celibacy is about sex. There are couples and even marriages where they are celibate.

I’m aspie and just pointing out the improper word use. Like calling a dog a cat.

Honesty as a 30 year old with no relationship status I have to unfortunately say from what I’ve seen yes men over 25 with no relationship experience are seen as red flag and undatable. The whole why didn’t any date them why are they still single at such a late age etc it’s the there must be something serious bad about them logic.
They don’t seem to stop and think maybe he’s just shy. Though in my case they right and it’s obvious as I don’t have a good job.
It’s both men and women who say this stuff by the way.