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To the guy who tied his two large, unfriendly dogs to the disabled toilet railing:

Thanks mate.
I really enjoyed crawling through the upper railing to visit the loo.
But at least your dogs were safe.
Which is much more important than people who don't have proper use of their legs.
We'll be right.

Hope you never get kidnapped by a psycho and have your legs sawn off, or anything like that.

Much love

3 pieces of bad news over the last 5 days. Tired of bad news and losses.

(((Skilpadde)))

My wife left me a month ago with a very cryptic explanation as the reason. Now I feel stranded and lost in the US.
Thinking about having to establish a new life is in this country is frightening

We'll help you make the adjustment.

I appreciate it! I am sorry for not being available the past weeks. I had plenty of things to take care of.

I don't want to leave the states. I actually like it here! At this point, though, everything seems to be in pieces.

Mr. Robot!

We've all missed you terribly and I'm heartbroken to hear your news! Let us know how we can support you through this challenging time! You will manage by coping step by step until things become more familiar, and you will persevere as we all have through the darkest situations. Please trust that it will be alright. I'm so glad you are back, to rebuild a support system for yourself.

Be strong

Isabella

Thank you so much for this wonderful message! I truly appreciate every word you posted here. I missed you all and I am beyond glad to be around again.

It is a rough time to go through and wish I didn't have to deal with this, but let me tell you that I am in good hands (both here and in the real world), and i am slowly but surely establishing a life on my own. My main priorities now are my studies, my jobs, my books, movies, and my creative endeavors. I will be fine. I have gotten dumped before, but this was a harsh end to a good relationship that, despite of its rough patches, was very fulfilling.

I will let everything else (regarding relationships, etc.) happen to me naturally. I am a family man, so I would love to be in a warm relationship again, but with this action my trust has gotten broken, and putting all of those pieces back up will be a longer process.

Thank you from the bottom of my heart, Isabella (and all the other good people on here)

Thank you as well, Robot!
Indeed, please focus on your studies and personal interests as much as possible. This isn't a time for anything radically new or overly-planned, but keeping a routine is important for your mood. Check in on WP regularly, so we know you are OK with the rollercoaster of emotion you must feel. Things will get better.

I certainly will check in on here regularly again. I apologize for my absence. It was not my intention to make you worry

Why would someone match on Tinder only to unmatch, before you even get to talk to them? I know most people are addicted to their phone, however, I am not one of those people. It's hard enough to be forced into the position of making first contact, why not have something resembling patience if you have "interest"?

Bad enough that my NT roommate kept me up late last night yammering on with her late-night phone calls (as usual - who does she even talk to at that hour?) and I temporarily can't wear earplugs and have had trouble sleeping for the past 3 months. Now the neighbours have been banging and hammering nonstop since too early this morning. I'm playing music in my headphones but I can still feel the vibrations from the hammering. Arrgh.

Sounds like a neighbor I used to have. Horrible person. Always had something to drill or to hammer. Whenever he didn't, he listened to Techno loudly..

And people can call other people for the stupidest reasons. I have no idea what the actual content of the conversations are, or if there even is any content, but they can go on for hours... And people call me weird.

I don't feel good. I have fallen into a deep depression, I feel absolutely lonely, and my life is going into a direction I cannot properly deal with.
The way my wife pulled the plug of our marriage was cruel and insanely selfish considering that I moved to another continent for her. I am filled with anger for the way this got handled..

I'm sorry to hear that this is going on. I know how when you feel depressed, it can seem that nothing anyone says will make things better. So I'll just say, I hope that your life will get better.

Thank you for your nice words. I appreciate them, even though you are in fact right about nothing making things better at this point.
It has been multiple weeks now that I am living separated and it is me not having any form of perspective right now that is the hardest for me. In addition to this, I suck at being single