28 Jul 2020, 6:06 pm
Teach51
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29 Jul 2020, 3:17 pm
30 Jul 2020, 6:01 pm
Also mods Routinely lock threads without contacting the thread creator.
Actually the person left without leaving any means by which to contact them ~ so gaining permission was therefore impossible, and I was actually asked about getting the thread locked ~ but my permission was taken for granted before I even read the request.
Hence my rant.
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30 Jul 2020, 8:22 pm
Aside from not being given any opportunity to grant the permission to lock the thread ~ losing five hours work on a moderator / administrator protocols and links to training sites post; that kind of rubbed, but ~ I am getting more used to that and slowly learning more to save things before they get lost in trying to post them here.
Well as a rather well liked person that was part of the idea ~ as being also the most recent person to succumb to the lack of respectful debate here and like many others previously before have chosen healthier options elsewhere. The main direction of the thread was though to make Wrong Planet hospital and inviting rather than allowing it to remain and become yet more challenging and toxic.
Rightly rather than wrongly ~ and the others were directed at others also but most do not even notice them or the toxic atmosphere given that it is not called Normalised (Unconscious, Subconscious and Preconscious) Abuse for nothing. So many here have just been traumatically hypnotized with the rhythms and beatings of others slights and insults ~ that it's just become a get used to it session basically.
A mix of rehashing the original and new ideas methinks ~ but rather than as before using the role of 'thread-host' as primary 'modus-operandi'; it will be as 'quasi-moderator' so any rules that do get broken and I am going to quote the rule, identify the error and report it as quickly as possible.
I was unfortunately under the false impression previously that Isabella' had in fact as Pepe put it 'left the building, and that I had the luxury of time to discuss or resolve each issue with each post writer in turn ~ little realising that the longer I left the insultathon; the more offence it was causing Isabella.
Obviously as moderators you are dealing with the abuse on a more than regular basis, and thus have gotten used to putting up with it to much larger degrees.
For those of us who do not get used to it; the Normalised Abuse is getting really bad, such as blooiejagwa has also commented upon above.
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31 Jul 2020, 1:26 pm
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Let's not flog a dead horse. If you have concerns and want to discuss them and find ways to change things here for the better, there's a new thread for it: https://wrongplanet.net/forums/viewtopic.php?f=13&t=389127
There's some of the usual nonsense in there but also people who genuinely try to help, so hop on 
31 Jul 2020, 1:41 pm
Basic personal piece of discernment lesson. 
As an autistic born without the appropriate colored contexts.
Many tried to compensate by being more colored in contexts and taken that way, and some gets negative and inappropriate colors of contexts and stayed that way.
A few are lucky enough not to end up being overly compensated and remain functional.
Post says; reread.
Colored sense says; piss off.
Post says; observation.
Colored sense says; this is reality.
Post says; suggestion, optional.
Colored sense says; should, must - can, can't / have, have nots.
Post says; regulate.
Colored sense says; suppression.
I missed too many lessons because of this.
Is there a guide for my egocentric reactionary ADD and BPD-like comorbidities for emotional management, personal contexts and possible paths of stoicism amongst a very emotional culture?
TL;DR -
The things I've been fighting over myself...
31 Jul 2020, 10:54 pm
01 Aug 2020, 12:40 am
Let's not flog a dead horse.
You have mistaken a footprint for the traveller, and forgotten that all journeys start with a first step.
Thankyou very much for the link, it is very much appreciated.
Refrain from describing peoples journeys as futile or other people's input as nonsense ~ on The Haven of forums; for to help and support each other is all that we need do here.
Your help and support is very much appreciated.
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04 Aug 2020, 5:06 am
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04 Aug 2020, 7:00 am
The current covid situation has snatched normal life away from human beings. I am so tired of it and just want to be able to enjoy my summer like any other year 
04 Aug 2020, 7:02 am
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09 Aug 2020, 11:01 pm
WARNING: It can trigger some people.
Dear Science,
Solve this. Properly. Without bias. Without the dehumanized crap. Without the one-sided crap because all stories are valid.
Thank you. Because screw priorities, screw fundings, screw politics, screw whatever crap in the whole autism community is competing one another about.
Sincerely,
an impatient "patient".
*I can disregard autism as a label, as a stance, even as an identity -- I can take it for what it is in a complete dot.
Others don't. Or can't. And thought they do when it's not -- in which I may fall over such phase from time to time. That's what truly bothers me.
Everyone wants their fulfillments. And everyone wants their peace.
PS - Or not.
Because most of these thoughts and concerns got nothing to do with my life at all*.
And it's best that I get my mind out off the gutter so to speak. Really, thoughts like these are a headache.
Just like any recursive thoughts that are just as unpleasant and remained unresolved constantly nagged by loud and incessant conscience.
