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29 Dec 2020, 4:29 pm

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My auntie is determined to buy me clothes I hate.

I asked for art materials.

She got me ladies clothes instead.

I don't wear ladies clothes.

I can't even take it back to the shop because I'm not a 50 yo bloke so I don't wear anything from Marks & Sparks.


Give the clothes to the homeless.
Gain some warm and fuzzies. :mrgreen:


Any other year I would.

This year I'm making do by donating the receipt to mum.

Although that will take til after the virus too so hmm...
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What's bugging me now is - why do people find it acceptable to rant about unrelated stuff just cos they are feeling upset? Esp to someone who is likely to be upset over the same thing?

Just be blunt and honest about being upset then don't take it out on the other person and in a trivial conversation.


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29 Dec 2020, 5:50 pm

Feeling outta sorts this Eve have witnessed toooo much reality and more than one set eyes should ever have had to see . Just being a bit whiney.. seen stuff your not meant to see , to know stuff your not meant to know .
Been through physical maladies / physical disabilities , doctors that don’t feel that your supposed to have survived
Multiple vehicle accidents . People grifting you Regularily. Outlived all my School mates growing up , bad neighbourskinda Tends to bend the reality of the minds view of the world . Blah blah blah..... :(
And trying to Surviving A Pandemic .


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29 Dec 2020, 8:31 pm

yeh, this mean ol' world is a big ball of confusion. i'm ready to matriculate.



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29 Dec 2020, 8:41 pm

^you’re channeling the Temptations :wink:



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29 Dec 2020, 8:44 pm

Thank you Auntblabby for your understanding ........ yeah ..matriculate :|


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29 Dec 2020, 8:46 pm

yes, premature matriculation is a big temptation ;)



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29 Dec 2020, 8:52 pm

Now you’re being Slip Mahoney!



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29 Dec 2020, 9:13 pm

^^^i hadda goggle him.



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30 Dec 2020, 5:40 am

He was a Bowery Boy who funnily mispronounced words. The leader of the Dead End Kids.



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30 Dec 2020, 6:27 am

kraftiekortie wrote:
He was a Bowery Boy who funnily mispronounced words. The leader of the Dead End Kids.

i wonder if the writers of the Back2theFuture series thought of him when constructing the bully Biff's character? biff was often warping his sentences as well.



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30 Dec 2020, 6:32 am

Biff was just a general dummy with no soul. A bully.

The Bowery Boys had soul and spirit, and had good intentions.



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30 Dec 2020, 6:50 am

i have never watched their series.



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30 Dec 2020, 7:25 am

KT67 wrote:
Pepe wrote:
KT67 wrote:
My auntie is determined to buy me clothes I hate.

I asked for art materials.

She got me ladies clothes instead.

I don't wear ladies clothes.

I can't even take it back to the shop because I'm not a 50 yo bloke so I don't wear anything from Marks & Sparks.


Give the clothes to the homeless.
Gain some warm and fuzzies. :mrgreen:


Any other year I would.

This year I'm making do by donating the receipt to mum.

Although that will take til after the virus too so hmm...
*
What's bugging me now is - why do people find it acceptable to rant about unrelated stuff just cos they are feeling upset? Esp to someone who is likely to be upset over the same thing?

Just be blunt and honest about being upset then don't take it out on the other person and in a trivial conversation.


People complain about "filter bubbles" on the internet, but I've come to think that it's actually better to rant about what's upsetting you to like-minded, supportive people, rather than to find a random member of "the other side" and start a huge pointless fight with them.


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30 Dec 2020, 11:40 am

I'm annoyed at my sensitivity to stupid, ordinary things like wafts of cold air, or the electrical humming of fluorescent lightbulbs.
I'm annoyed at my ability to get sensory overload if afforementioned sensitivity is triggered for too long.

I don't want to have to ask anyone to take special considerations, I don't want to have to withdraw and have massive amounts of alone-time, I don't want to get upset over stupid things, I don't want to continuously misunderstand things to a point where I don't even realise I've misunderstood.

I just want to be normal and function like a normal human :/



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30 Dec 2020, 2:10 pm

I know what you mean, Sir.

I know you’re really trying in this life.



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31 Dec 2020, 8:48 pm

PhosphorusDecree wrote:
KT67 wrote:
Pepe wrote:
KT67 wrote:
My auntie is determined to buy me clothes I hate.

I asked for art materials.

She got me ladies clothes instead.

I don't wear ladies clothes.

I can't even take it back to the shop because I'm not a 50 yo bloke so I don't wear anything from Marks & Sparks.


Give the clothes to the homeless.
Gain some warm and fuzzies. :mrgreen:


Any other year I would.

This year I'm making do by donating the receipt to mum.

Although that will take til after the virus too so hmm...
*
What's bugging me now is - why do people find it acceptable to rant about unrelated stuff just cos they are feeling upset? Esp to someone who is likely to be upset over the same thing?

Just be blunt and honest about being upset then don't take it out on the other person and in a trivial conversation.


People complain about "filter bubbles" on the internet, but I've come to think that it's actually better to rant about what's upsetting you to like-minded, supportive people, rather than to find a random member of "the other side" and start a huge pointless fight with them.


Granddad's got cancer & mum keeps ranting at me for stuff that has nothing to do with him having cancer.

It hurts me that he's ill too.

In fact mum keeps saying he won't die & I think he will.

She's snapping at me over completely unrelated s**t. It's really annoying. I don't get why her emotions are affecting her in that way. I do know that this is probably why she's doing it but - I wish she would at least take it out on someone who isn't hurting for the exact same reason she's hurting (Ok granddad not dad but still...)
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What I'm wondering about now is does it count as an ED if it has nothing to do with weight and everything to do with punishing yourself over other stuff? If you know you're underweight? If you're not starving yourself, you just eat bad food on purpose when you feel like a bad person so that the inside of the stomach matches the inside of the brain...

And I'm thinking it's not a particularly healthy way to live.

I've been at it for years. If I don't eat lunch early enough, I punish myself by eating unhealthy food.


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