I'm leaving my girlfriend

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07 Feb 2011, 6:11 pm

I'm tired of her. It all started when I saw one of her Facebook posts saying:

"Today is so tragic, my crush isn't here to be with me."

I couldn't f*****g believe it. She had gone behind my back and was cheating on me. I was about done anyways. All we would ever do was go to parties and she'd get so shitfaced that it became annoying.

She was better than my British girlfriend from a few years ago. That girl turned out to be so boring, and when I'd ask her if she'd want to go out or something, she'd get psychotic.

So, today at lunch, I called it off. I left her at the table and went and sat with my friends. I won't even look at her.

I've been cheated on before, and it's not fun. This one however took the cake.

I thought I saw tears in her eyes when I left her to go sit with MY friends, not hers.

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07 Feb 2011, 6:14 pm

You're 100% sure she cheated on you? Facebook is not a very good medium of communication and context is often lost, though I would be suspicious of such a post as well
In any case if she was annoying you with her drinking or other behaviors it was probably a good call to get uninvolved. Its often better to break it off before it gets too ugly and acrimonious

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07 Feb 2011, 6:14 pm

To quote Larry Winget, you won't start living for yourself until you stop living for others.

That's all I have to say.

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07 Feb 2011, 6:22 pm

Well, the good thing about relationships is that you can leave at any time.

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07 Feb 2011, 6:22 pm

Vigilans wrote:

When you see her holding hands with another guy, then yes. I'll let her have her crush, she better enjoy it too, because if she wants to come back to me, I'll flat out refuse.

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07 Feb 2011, 6:28 pm

Well then, f*** her eh, good choice man you can do better then that

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07 Feb 2011, 8:00 pm

It happens, and it's usually the girls you least suspect to cheat on you that do.

I'm a girl but I'm speaking from experience of other girls I know that have cheated on their men.

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07 Feb 2011, 9:49 pm

raisedbyignorance wrote:

It happens, and it's usually the girls you least suspect to cheat on you that do.

I'm a girl but I'm speaking from experience of other girls I know that have cheated on their men.

I didn't see it coming until today. She burned me in the third degree.

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07 Feb 2011, 10:07 pm

Tramp got what she deserved.

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07 Feb 2011, 11:17 pm

hale_bopp wrote:

Tramp got what she deserved.

I still have the Creedonian playing cards she made me for my birthday. They're quite impressive.

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07 Feb 2011, 11:18 pm

Did you two have an official relationship? Maybe you thought it was more than she thought it was?

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07 Feb 2011, 11:21 pm

FireMinstrel wrote:

Did you two have an official relationship? Maybe you thought it was more than she thought it was?

It was official. but just the opposite.

She wasn't all there, she talked about wanting to marry me after college.

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08 Feb 2011, 3:34 am

There is a theory called "hypergamy" which means that women are always looking to "trade up" to a better model.

A guy who is hotter than you or richer than you.

Guys do the same thing. But because you don't want to lose what you have unless you are sure of the next person, you cheat on your present partner while you "test the water" with the new person.

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08 Feb 2011, 5:05 am

You can do better than a cheater anyway, just enjoy your single life and the perfect chick will come along.

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08 Feb 2011, 11:55 am

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pmg_psYaBWY&feature=related[/youtube]

I found a song that expresses the way I feel.

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08 Feb 2011, 1:40 pm

hale_bopp wrote:

Tramp got what she deserved.

I concur.

Anyways, I'm sorry to hear about this; I wish you better luck in the future.

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