I'm f***ing through with this

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Whatever I did, no one here ever accepted me. Goodbye. Save as anywhere. Treated like dirt.

How so?

My contributions here were of little interest to anyone. Perhaps I am just an idiot. I would rather not be reminded of how insignificant I am, such is my ego.

I predict I shall soon face doom...

I though they were interesting.

Well I feel rejected... everywhere I go. I'm afraid I just don't think I have people's confidence. I feel that people are harbouring resentment against me.

What those people think should be insignificant to you. It's probably just anxiety.

I've been treated like dirt by my dad, my sisters, the mental health professionals here, I could go on... I hate reality. What a bleak vista I see before me. If only fantasy could be true. Reality, oh what a horrible, unbearable wreck it is for me!

Who treats you like dirt on wrong planet? If someone is being hostile in a way that violates the posting rules, it can be locked / people banned if brought to the attention of moderators.
In other ways, it's hard to get any idea of how you're being received on an online forum. Just because people aren't responding to your posts every time, you don't know that your input wasn't of interest to anyone. Plus, lots of people lurk around here, read and don't post responses.
We're all insignificant in most ways. Nothing wrong with that, really, in my opinion. Rather that than being hugely significant to everybody all the time.

I wanted to achieve more than I have. That's all. I hate that I can't flirt with women or tell jokes that make people laugh, etc. Sometimes some of us are probably just better off living as recluses, and I would probably count myself among them people.

McPhologer tuning in from this dark hole that I've found.

Considering that I only usually lurk around the Haven, I can't put in much, but I do have two cents. More times than not I constantly feel like nobody is even giving an inkling of attention to what I have to say, but that's people. People suck, a lot. (Which is why I currently reside within this rather cold hole)

I just recommend that you don't do anything too harsh to yourself, you seem like a nice person that's just treated badly for a unjust cause. And... if you wanna talk to someone, I'm always free for a PM. I've nothing better to do.

Ok I'm honestly confused about this post. Is this post about how people in real life treat you like dirt or users on Wrong Planet? Because I don't know.

I feel people treat me like dirt everywhere. I like it here but it can be sad when people don't reply much to posts. Also when it gets quiet here and hardly anyone's posting I wonder if it's because I've posted too much. Am I the kind of person who puts people off using the site? Sometimes the forum is busy with loads of posters, other times it's quiet. I don't understand why people aren't consistent. Generally I'll post a regular amount. It can make me think there's something me people just don't like. But offline is worse. I've been to a few social situations recently where I was practically invisible. When I tried to get involved with other people because I couldn't tell jokes well I was more or less totally given the cold shoulder.

Well there's somedays where I post nothing at and sometimes a lot and today I posted a lot. But that's because there's posts that don't relate too me or can't think of something to post because someone's already posted the same or similar thing that I was going to say.

Hi fifasy, im sorry to hear this. To second what C2V said, if someone said/wrote something hurtful or inappropriate to you, it would be best to report them. I also don't think these subforums are very active, and a lot of people here are pretty reclusive to begin with. My first topic has been ignored for days, so I was feeling pretty nervous about that as well!
If you want to talk, please feel free to DM

Thanks icechai.

I had a situation I feel awkward about. I often complain about not being able to make friends but if I'm wholly honest I have had the opportunity for 2 friends recently. Only both of them were people I was scared of. One was a man and he frightened me not in the sense I felt threatened, but I was scared of spending time with him because he irritated me so much. I feel mean saying that because he was an Aspie too but he talked endlessly.

There was also a woman I could have befriended. She was kind of nice to me but I found out after a few chats with her she went to an evangelical church and while I'm open to knowing people who go to regular churches I feel the evangelical ones are too far for me. I don't like the excessiveness of them, the kind of zeal. I was worried what kind of people might interfere with my life if I got to know her. Also when her and I went for a drink in a bar she started chatting to two men at another table, and they were from that church. Then she started chatting with a couple with a child sat at another table. I only just moved to this town and I thought she's going to get me having to say hello to everyone and I can't handle that. I can only deal with so much social interaction.