Rants
I hate that too. I told a woman on babycenter "excuse me but I did not say X. Don't put words in my mouth." and then I told her I already apologized to the other poster. She replied back saying I was being snarky and to lose the attitude. What does she fricken expect? Don't take my words out of context. Take what I say word for word. Darn it.
I didn't bother replying back to her because I am in no mood for drama. God I hate those people on babycenter.
Taupey
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Joined: 24 Feb 2010
Age: 62
Gender: Female
Posts: 7,168
Location: Somewhere between juvenile and senile.
Warning: Sorry, A Bit Off Topic!
To League Girl,
LG I have been pregnant 4 times, I lost two babies while I was pregnant which was very upseting at the time, and I cried when that happened. Today, I have two beautiful adult children.
One of my sisters, Lainey, was very emotional during her pregnancy, she would get upset over the smallest things and cry for what seemed like forever. But I was never emotional except when my children where born, I was so happy I cried a little. Those were the two best days of my life.
I was happy while I was pregnant and very happy after my children were born. I never experienced any depression like some women do after they have their babies.
But I did go through the morning sickness some and I had headaches for a few weeks but not during the whole pregnancies. Of course that's never fun.
I was blessed. And being pregnant and having a baby (or babies) is a wonderful life changing experience, for me, there is nothing else that can compare to the days my children were born.
I don't know if "not being as emotional as other women while we are pregnant" has to do with us being on the Spectrum. That's an interesting question. I do know that you have always come across as a happy, well balanced person here at WrongPlanet, this is a special time for you, LG, don't let anyone bring you down.
Do you having any different cravings? I craved lemons with salt with my daughter and tomatos with salt with my son.
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Whatever you think you can do, or dream you can, begin it. Boldness has genius, magic and power in it. ~Goethe
Your Aspie score: 167 of 200
Your neurotypical (non-autistic) score: 35 of 200
You are very likely an Aspie.
I HATE my fiance`s family. I have worked so hard to try and be a good little Aspie, I even practise my social skills but they STILL WANT MORE.
They are CONSTANTLY complaining about me. They are even starting to think my AS is fake, and that I am deliberately out to hurt them. Really? I think THEY are out to hurt ME. My mother-in-law actually wrote down everything wrong I had done and made me sit there and listen to her lecture me. And my sister-in-law went completely off her nut because she is not a bridesmaid. Maybe that's because you're a b***h?
They are constantly trying to run my life, and tell me how to run my household. How many times a day I should clean things, how I should speak to people.
You know that b***h of a MIL told me that the best asset a man could have is a good wife he can take out? In other words, she wants me to be a trophy wife. Back off you dumb witch, you know nothing.
I have tried my guts out but it seems like it isn't good enough for the stupid neurotypical softcocks. I did it even though I dispised the person I was becoming. I was selling myself out. I swore I would only have enough social skills to keep a job, but I went further to try and keep the peace and it gets spat back in my face. Well screw the lot of you. How dare you.
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wow. you may need some medication. i feel nauseous reading your tirade.
i feel sorry for you that you are caught in such a whirlpool of dissatisfaction.
the world is nowhere near as bad as you perceive i believe. you will have a stroke if you can not calm down and let things roll by without getting snagged and dragged with the effluent that is flowing past you. do not reply to me because i am just a spectator.
i did not take it personally. in no way do i identify with what you said. i probably should not have commented and i will grant you that, but i just commented that what you wrote was difficult for me to process and i felt sick reading it.
i will accept that, but you mentioned no one else's name in your post either, so if they reply , will they get such a reaction from you?
ok i understand. i did not read that this was the haven forum where people are sheltered from unkind appraisals.
i do not know what GFY means. maybe it means "gather fertile yields".
i am not attempting to diagnose you. i just said what i thought. the fact that you live in america is irrelevant to me. i just think you are someone who is severely troubled, and you remind me of psychotic people i have encountered in the past.
i am not a doctor and i have not much education, but i would personally steer clear of you if ever i encountered you in real life.
yes i forgot to read who i was replying to. i did not remember that you and me have had bad words in the past.
i remember now that you have disagreed with my style of being long ago, and i remember now that i regarded you as a strange old lady, and i promise you that i will not address you again.
i do not like you.
so let this be the final communication between us because i will surely remember your name "taupey" from now on, and i will never reply to you again.
and you can do me a similar favor by refraining to comment on what i have said tonight, and at all points in the future in my posts that i assure you will have nothing to do with you.
i am not attracted to you you sad old person. i just saw your words and thought "wow", but i will read carefully who i reply to in future.
People who turn the lights on in a room with blazing midday sunshine streaming through the window. It was not the office. It was the staff room. He wasn't doing anything except eating lunch. 'Oh, I think I'll have this flickery artificial light for no reason.'
And people who expect me to know everything just because of my level of education! Arrrgh!
To League Girl,
LG I have been pregnant 4 times, I lost two babies while I was pregnant which was very upseting at the time, and I cried when that happened. Today, I have two beautiful adult children.
One of my sisters, Lainey, was very emotional during her pregnancy, she would get upset over the smallest things and cry for what seemed like forever. But I was never emotional except when my children where born, I was so happy I cried a little. Those were the two best days of my life.
I was happy while I was pregnant and very happy after my children were born. I never experienced any depression like some women do after they have their babies.
But I did go through the morning sickness some and I had headaches for a few weeks but not during the whole pregnancies. Of course that's never fun.
I was blessed. And being pregnant and having a baby (or babies) is a wonderful life changing experience, for me, there is nothing else that can compare to the days my children were born.
I don't know if "not being as emotional as other women while we are pregnant" has to do with us being on the Spectrum. That's an interesting question. I do know that you have always come across as a happy, well balanced person here at WrongPlanet, this is a special time for you, LG, don't let anyone bring you down.
Do you having any different cravings? I craved lemons with salt with my daughter and tomatos with salt with my son.
I'm sorry for your two losses. I have lost one last summer.
I haven't had any cravings. I crave sweets but I have always craved them because I'm a sweet person. But I don't have very much of them because I cut way back.
I'm pissed that my family won't accept my Asperger's diagnosis and are being so weird about it. I hate that I have a horrible time any time I go back to my parents' place from college just because they refuse to take into account my sensitivities and make life a living hell when I'm there. I despise that my father will yell at me when I become stressed and anxious and obviously not very happy at the table, due to sensory overload, instead of asking me what's wrong and whether he or anyone else can help. I hate that I'm not allowed to take my food out of the kitchen when the others are being ridiculously noisy or whatever, stopping me from eating. I hate that I am afraid to confide in any of my family members about anything any more. I open up to them about all this and they treat me like dirt in return. I will not confide in any of them ever again unless they get the guts to apologize to me some day for how shamefully they've treated me over a diagnosis!
What angers and hurts me most about all this is that all I actually want from them is cooperation so that I can get by when I'm at home. And by that, I very simply mean maintaining a calm atmosphere (which I thought would be easy to do in one's own home) and not pressuring me into more activity than I can cope with. Seriously... how hard could it be to do that? In fact, it wouldn't be asking them to DO anything, but to NOT DO stuff!! F*** sake! I'd do ANYTHING for them and they know it! I'm disgusted with them. And I wish so much that I wasn't!
Taupey
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Joined: 24 Feb 2010
Age: 62
Gender: Female
Posts: 7,168
Location: Somewhere between juvenile and senile.
wow. you may need some medication. i feel nauseous reading your tirade.
i feel sorry for you that you are caught in such a whirlpool of dissatisfaction.
the world is nowhere near as bad as you perceive i believe. you will have a stroke if you can not calm down and let things roll by without getting snagged and dragged with the effluent that is flowing past you. do not reply to me because i am just a spectator.
i did not take it personally. in no way do i identify with what you said. i probably should not have commented and i will grant you that, but i just commented that what you wrote was difficult for me to process and i felt sick reading it.
i will accept that, but you mentioned no one else's name in your post either, so if they reply , will they get such a reaction from you?
ok i understand. i did not read that this was the haven forum where people are sheltered from unkind appraisals.
i do not know what GFY means. maybe it means "gather fertile yields".
i am not attempting to diagnose you. i just said what i thought. the fact that you live in america is irrelevant to me. i just think you are someone who is severely troubled, and you remind me of psychotic people i have encountered in the past.
i am not a doctor and i have not much education, but i would personally steer clear of you if ever i encountered you in real life.
yes i forgot to read who i was replying to. i did not remember that you and me have had bad words in the past.
i remember now that you have disagreed with my style of being long ago, and i remember now that i regarded you as a strange old lady, and i promise you that i will not address you again.
i do not like you.
so let this be the final communication between us because i will surely remember your name "taupey" from now on, and i will never reply to you again.
and you can do me a similar favor by refraining to comment on what i have said tonight, and at all points in the future in my posts that i assure you will have nothing to do with you.
i am not attracted to you you sad old person. i just saw your words and thought "wow", but i will read carefully who i reply to in future.
So YOU say. The TRUTH would be nice b9.
LOL, OMGS, I'm NOT much older than YOU, OLD MAN if I'm older than you at all (?)... I just don't lie about my age.
YOU just saw my words and thought you would take another opportunity to harass me, LIKE YOU OFTEN DO, in some form or another.
Ooo... ATROPHIED FOOT, now, that sounds like YOU'RE directly insulting me, again. hmm... I wonder why YOU would do that?
I KNOW why... YOU couldn't help YOURSELF, could YOU? IT'S driving YOU wild with ANGER, MY very EXISTENCE. I KNOW too MUCH and YOU CAN'T stand it.
YOU do realize that means, GOOD for ME and TOO BAD for YOU? Ha Ha
STOP following me around like a RABID love-sick puppy dog, trying to get me to fight with you about every little thing, and stop creating things to fight with me about too, it's CREEPY, really.
And YES it's about time that YOU go play make-believe with YOUR little friends and LEAVE ME ALONE, happily FOREVER after and all that. But I'll believe it, when I see it.
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Whatever you think you can do, or dream you can, begin it. Boldness has genius, magic and power in it. ~Goethe
Your Aspie score: 167 of 200
Your neurotypical (non-autistic) score: 35 of 200
You are very likely an Aspie.
Taupey
Veteran
Joined: 24 Feb 2010
Age: 62
Gender: Female
Posts: 7,168
Location: Somewhere between juvenile and senile.
To League Girl,
LG I have been pregnant 4 times, I lost two babies while I was pregnant which was very upseting at the time, and I cried when that happened. Today, I have two beautiful adult children.
One of my sisters, Lainey, was very emotional during her pregnancy, she would get upset over the smallest things and cry for what seemed like forever. But I was never emotional except when my children where born, I was so happy I cried a little. Those were the two best days of my life.
I was happy while I was pregnant and very happy after my children were born. I never experienced any depression like some women do after they have their babies.
But I did go through the morning sickness some and I had headaches for a few weeks but not during the whole pregnancies. Of course that's never fun.
I was blessed. And being pregnant and having a baby (or babies) is a wonderful life changing experience, for me, there is nothing else that can compare to the days my children were born.
I don't know if "not being as emotional as other women while we are pregnant" has to do with us being on the Spectrum. That's an interesting question. I do know that you have always come across as a happy, well balanced person here at WrongPlanet, this is a special time for you, LG, don't let anyone bring you down.
Do you having any different cravings? I craved lemons with salt with my daughter and tomatos with salt with my son.
I'm sorry for your two losses. I have lost one last summer.
I haven't had any cravings. I crave sweets but I have always craved them because I'm a sweet person. But I don't have very much of them because I cut way back.
I wasn't aware you also had lost a baby, I'm sorry for your loss as well. I love sweets too especially chocolate, but I didn't eat a whole lot of it while I was pregnant either. IRL people often tell me I'm a kind, sweet, compassionate person, even though I will stand up to anyone who is mean to me, like most other people. But yes, I have seen sweetness in you on this forum many times. Take Care LG.
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Whatever you think you can do, or dream you can, begin it. Boldness has genius, magic and power in it. ~Goethe
Your Aspie score: 167 of 200
Your neurotypical (non-autistic) score: 35 of 200
You are very likely an Aspie.
tammy needed some toilet paper last night and i had to go to a service station to get it.
it was late and the main doors were closed (due to threat of robbery) , so i had to ask the teller from the side window to go and get it and he came back and put it in the tray and pushed it out and i paid and went.
when i got home, i sneezed a few times so i went and got the toilet paper to wipe my nose, and i saw that the toilet paper was .........RECYCLED!! !! !
that has to be the most disgusting thing i have encountered in this new green movement. i am certainly not going to use it for any purpose whatsoever!!
it is going to new depths of depravity for people to fish out used toilet paper from sewerage treatment vats, and recycling it to make a few dollars at the expense of my sense of my sense of decency.
people will be extracting undigested corn kernels from excrement at sewerage treatment plants soon and washing them and selling them at organic markets.
what is the world coming to ?!?!