My Husband has a Secret Relationship w/Someone

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Thank you YellowBanana!

I'm not even sure I'll get the job. They probably want someone younger and in better shape. They hire a lot of teenagers. The hardest part has been the zero references. Even Goodwill stores demand references.

I did manage to meet my calorie goal yesterday, that felt good. Went for a walk this morning.

He told me Saturday night he was going to concentrate on counseling and cut ties with her. I asked if she knew what that meant, no calls, no texts, no Snapchat (which he denied she was on, I told him I knew she was in his circle), he said that yes she knew.

But then she called him and called him. He texted me not to be angry, she called him. While he was texting me that he blocked her number she called him again. Then the messaging started up right where it left off. Last text of the night to her, first one this morning to her.

I had sent him instructions on how to block a number yesterday. He didn't do it. I texted him this morning I forgot the instructions for blocking numbers for IM's, that the number has to be marked as spam. Told him I hope he slept well and that he had a good day at work. He said he did sleep well and thanked me for wishing him a good day.

Barf. I know, I know, but in my defense I didn't believe him when he said he told her it was over. I wanted to believe him, but I knew it was too good to be true. He moved into his friends condo, says he'll get another job to pay for it. Either he's selling stuff or someone is giving him money. The charges for food and gas suddenly dropped off. And he still isn't discussing financials with me. All I can do is keep job searching and think about what I'll do when this all blows up in my face in a month or two. I hoping to keep my sanity at least until the end of summer.

Trying to keep worries to a minimum so I can at least function. Whatever I can't do anything about today will have to be worried about tomorrow. I want to get through one day without anxiety medication. I'm terrified of the addictive qualities associated with them.

Next therapy session is tomorrow.