It's pointless.

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Actually I just told the local police she might make a false 911 report about me, that there was no real fight, I left immediately & that she & her boyfriend smoked all my weed.

I'm just going to tell her that I paid for my freaking out in ganja offerings & that I forgive her but there will be ground rules. Disrespect of any kind automatically gets anybody kicked out of my house, I'm a damn boy scout, what else would she expect?

Uhm ... i related my opinion.. btw ,, aspies besides being perfect targets for gaslighting.. are just perfect targets . Just speaking from my lifes experience over 57 yrs experience of this directly ,, with excellent recollection . Can say this in all sincerity .. now at 61 yrs . Just my nature was always wanting to trust . Wanting Belief in the goodness of human nature .

By what am reading .. you are now being victimized , if having friends ,,is of higher importance than honesty , even with yourself . Then your die is cast.
Based on empirical case evidence . On file legally , this technique was used on me & hubby, in setting my husband up for his permanent lifes end. BY same people doing the gaslighting . Victimizing behavoiur ,using our belief in reciprocity and good human nature . These people were even less obvious in the gaslighting process , than your live in is .
Rantings between friends does not mean it is necesessary to double down on letting yourself to be victimized .. or victimizing another . paperwork on exparte , is something, that may serve you .
Excuse my frankness please .

I appreciate knowing what that option consists of, as much as I hope it's unnecessary. I'm worried my roommate was just addressing me from a place of anxiety & felt the consequences of cornering me.

I'm not doing great with it but I'll just tell her I have no room for that to turn into animosity. I take orders from no one. I'm a friendly person but I know enough to stop people exploiting me. I'm a few days or so away from relaxing enough to deal with this person. I get the sense she's been gossiping about me for a long time.

I'll just tell her I can afford her part of the rent until I move.

Understood , the exparte paperwork still would be best to have on hand dealing with these sortt of people , seriously . Mere fact that she is bringing others into the situation , (with very likely intent to be able to disecredit you ,if comes to court or public confrontation).
My current neighbor has been doing that since i witnessed a past 2 yr old killing in her backyard that i witnessed at 40 yards distance away . Between man and son .. Insisting to all she knows that , i am a crazy person . And knows nothing. Shared common friends until then. After ,10yrs of gaslighted friendship.
More people , idk and are indebted her in getting a free meal from her , ie. The gang that hung around this man and his son , and their extended friends .Fastest way to a man heart is a good meal,A truism .
Have only happened to see these people going and coming from her back yard.
She claims are homeless people. Are now destroying private property in my yard around my home..stealing anything , i may forget , and not bring inside at night . Cutting holes in bak fence . To have contant access to yard from behind my home. Damage to my vehicle and multiple thefts by them from my vehicle,
While parked in my yard .while locked.
These are people i never ever met or knew of , And their behaviour is being manipulated by this one woman . Police say if , a policeman did not see it . It did not happen , and will only take a report.
{{This is a elderly appearing woman , whom would not believe a elderly looking
Woman. And want to help her out. Especially , if not wanting to even care for their own wellbeing ? }} of a girl presents a male person .As a potential ATTACKER or victimizer. ( my case elderly woman presents me younger ,more physically able.
Nicer appearing woman. With nicer home . Widowed and alone,disabled,still taking care of yard. As a personalthreat to her)
You are now not worthy of respect in their eyes. And dealt with accordingly
Take care and be safe please.

i have no horse in your race. If you donot post here ever again , it will not affect my personal life .Am writing this merely to possibly help someone i dont even know , and only with the limited facts posted here

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She's gambling an awful lot by treating me this way. I told her I can print out her texts & file harassment charges. She tried to lie to others that I was off my medications, which I take nightly. She's gaslighting the s**t out of me & she knows she's gonna be very much unwelcome if she doesn't just chill like an adult.

This person is a drug addicted rehab counselor.

Please realise , your not in the possiblity of having this situation turn on you.
(If events you has transcribed here are facts , ) You have already been set up.
Anything that happen between you 2 now , will be most likely strictly under her control ! . You are on the other side of being in the middle of the situation,
Just my opinion , but emergency damage control , is required now.
If you believe you have control is the situation, it is a misnomer. She has already gotten you to apologize, for your rant, then you justified , for her smoking up your pot , WITH her boyfriend . And whom do you think is in control here? Your gambling reference is not applicable at this point.
Just be careful . Compile info and exparte application, out of her veiw or anyones . "Chance favours the prepared mind" is a fact.
But am merely a member of the audience in this .Saga . ( Masscre)

Yeah I'll probably do that, but I informed her boyfriend (who seemingly actually gives a damn) that she's on a psychotic break & needs help. She's getting a reality check about how she treats everyone. I warned the police about her lies & I warned her I'll make a state regulatory complaint about her therapy license. I also warned her this morning I'll press charges if I need to.

It's not actually pointless, - that's just what this female bigot made me think.

Following this a touch, not in full, but even that touch: yowsers!! !! (a childish response to a very adult situation)

Wishing you safety and wellness.

Yes ...... ! Defo. Me thinks the victim is awaken .
Now , it gets harder to digest , (my next thoughts very possibly ,) Do not make excuses for her, like psychotic break , police will ask you if your are the psychological professional ? And your not . Or try to cast blame. Deal with only facts . Not your opinions ,What she has done or said are facts . You are not in a battle , if you have realized , what she is doing , to you , with you , Do not threaten ever,
Do not give away , any defensive strategys . You may employ . Still feeding into her control , do not counter bully a bully . If you are in any kind of position to extricate yourself from this situation . Please do . Con: boyfriend being more sympathetic ? A smart bully will try to employ others . In their efforts .
And possibly use them to get possible info on your strategy , due to your venting frustration to anyone involved to justify your anger ..Cause, of course , they CAN relate . If boyfriend happily smoked your weed with this woman ,
Whom is he going to be grateful to ? Whom does he get Enjoyment from on a carnal level . Knowing this ? Whom are his loyalties too? Whom will he share his info with ? And you think your telling him your potential , actions against her , will get back to her .... very possibly , and she will then use that info to use , to twist the information , if she is corner by authorities , or caught herself in legal action.

But as i said , i do not know you and all this just becomes conjecture . From
My being a outsider . Have lived though what your describing repeatedly .
Good night good luck.

I think I have a handle on things, but if that's a false pretense I'll find out pretty soon & revise some plans.