encounter with a not nice person

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Feyhera
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10 Aug 2009, 3:41 pm

LostAlien wrote:
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I'm going to go to evening classes when I am all moved and settled into college (and I've just found a place and hope all goes well there). I'm going to look for an Irish nationality french teacher though (because they'll possibily have been taught similarly to me). I would like to know enough french to be able to talk and listen when I go to France next because my local town is twinned with a town in France and we stay at each others houses for a week each year. Feyhera, your explainations really help :) and I want to thank you again. I'm more able to move on and not be hurt by the re-plays because I'm not so confused. The confusion was making it happen over and over.

CMaximus, I'd love to have a punch bag but can't afford one at the moment. It's great excercise, though it sometimes doesn't work when I try to box my way out of it. Perhaps I should buy some worn wooden pallets to break though, it could be used for firewood for winter, constructive action which would distract and disipate my emotional difficulties in future events. Mum has a fire to set an atmosphere in the living room at christmas.

Mosto, I'm sorry for your pain. I hope you meet nicer people in future. I wasn't totally awake when I responded first and didn't take it in fully until I reread your post in Feyhera's post. About five years ago I probably would have wanted to stay in my room and be upset about the actions of others, and it would have hurt more and more. I used to self harm when this happened because the emotional pain got so bad, it took a while to learn how to talk about things and to work things out. I'm still learning how to deal with my pains and confusions, and it will probably be still learning in five more years.



On a nice experience note, I met a former teacher in school and he said that he remembered me for being nice and honest, it was nice to see the smile and it made me happy because he was nice. And it was nice to be remembered. :)

Should we create a thread to say about nice experiences? to help remind people that good things do happen?


Oh, it's so nice to hear you're feeling so much better, LostAlien! And, you know, I think meeting up with your former teacher and getting to hear that you left such a great impression was the perfect ending to an otherwise awful experience. How cool! I've seen some threads here and there where people are asked to make posts about the good things that happen to them, but they come and go, so, why not start one of your own! I'd post there! Talking about happy things does help us remember that life has its ups as well as its downs! I'm also very impressed with your ideas about sticking with your Fr language lessons and yes, it might do well to have a fellow-countryman teach you. I would like to add though that I also had a dynamite French lady for a teacher once and so, not all of them are following the model which they were given. And for the most part, I can report that I like the French very much. You find your stinkers every now and then but, hey, there are jerks in every walk of life, right?

So, stay amazing and see you out on the boards! (and maybe in Paris one day!)
Feyhera :wink:


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