Aimless wrote:
I got stressed just watching one of your tour of SuperHappyFunland videos. You seriously need a quiet space that's all your own. Maybe it's all the competing noise.
Noise is EXTREMELY difficult for aspies, especially loud live music like the type at SHFL. I can't imagine what it would be like to live NEXT to a live concert venue! And in the same building! I have to use a fan every night to drown out all the strange noises around here, I live in an area where there are one acre lots and the residents think they can do whatever because the cops rarely venture out here, so there are Mexicans who hold outdoor movie nights and parties with live bands and 7 foot tall speakers blaring Mexican music, and Russians arguing with each other and working on their illegal car shops, and the guy who is always beating his wife and the Pakistanis who zoom up and down the street in cheap Asian sports cars.
There are about five very large homes in here all owned by a single extended Pakistani clan, and they refuse to mingle with the neighbors and they do whatever they feel like. I come home and there are two dozen cars blocking the road because the Mexicans down the street have their extended family here from the Southland for another party. (At least they have a loving family, but the commotion is awful.) The same people let their little dogs roam all over and don't seem to care, and the dogs keep chasing cars and getting flattened, so they go out and buy more dogs, rinse lather repeat. I don't bother with the neighbors, I just stay in my insulated house and crank up the fans and I don't hear it.
Sorry I hijacked your thread Poopy, but I know how difficult noise can be, but I can't imagine what you go through. I looked at your map on your site and it looks like you live in a fairly dense inner city industrial area, although I've never been to Houston I know that it really sprawls and your street address starts with "38" and has four numerals so you must be fairly close to downtown. There's plenty of opportunities for an unwary feline to meet with doom in such an area.
You have said that you live with a guy who cheats on you regularly and an assistant who steals anything not nailed down, and now you're saying that there's loud noise and concerts every night and you have to be the bartender and serve drunk people more drinks in an uncontrolled environment (that's why you called yourself "a-social bartender" earlier, and you explained why in an earlier post). I assume that if you could leave and go somewhere else you would have by now. I don't know what to tell you, and Texas makes getting disability checks impossible, in fact people move there because "welfare leeches ain't stealing my money in Texas".