Does anyone ever feel down and anxious about (male) violence

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lotusblossom
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01 Sep 2010, 5:19 am

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"do you really think you are different to me, or your mum or a little old lady, all of whom would have to call the police in that situation."

thank you for the confidence boost of saying i am as strong as a little old lady. Here is a deal i will stop being insecure when you stop obsessing over exercise, caking yourself in make up and shaving your arms before you leave the house. :evil: :evil: :evil: :evil: :evil: :evil: :evil: :evil: :evil: :evil: :evil: :evil: :evil: :evil: :evil: :evil: :evil: :evil: :evil: :evil: :evil: :evil: :evil: :evil: :evil: :evil: :evil:

you know I was not saying that you were as weak as a little old lady! My point was that you were not as weak as any of those people (you are a strong man) yet those weak people still have to go around outside. I dont agree with men having to be butch and macho or think its good for men (or anyone) to fight and attack people so Im never going to condone you attacking people or fighting, I cant beleive what I dont and so I will always make you cross on this issue.



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01 Sep 2010, 9:07 am

Mutate wrote:
"do you really think you are different to me, or your mum or a little old lady, all of whom would have to call the police in that situation."

thank you for the confidence boost of saying i am as strong as a little old lady. Here is a deal i will stop being insecure when you stop obsessing over exercise, caking yourself in make up and shaving your arms before you leave the house. :evil: :evil: :evil: :evil: :evil: :evil: :evil: :evil: :evil: :evil: :evil: :evil: :evil: :evil: :evil: :evil: :evil: :evil: :evil: :evil: :evil: :evil: :evil: :evil: :evil: :evil: :evil:

Your right, I am very very insecure about how I look and have a lot of obsessive routines trying to correct my percieved faults. This means I would empathise with you about not feeling good about how you look. I am not able to empathise with you about feeling insecure about 'manliness' (or whichever is your preferred phraze) as I dont have a problem with that particular thing. Im only any good at empathising with things Ive felt. I wish I could be more emnpathetic and sympathetic and make you feel better, as I really want to be able to make you feel good, but Im not any good at that.

Im sure I do make you feel worse as lots of people have told me that Im emasculating but I dont recognise the things that I do which make people feel that way or be able to not do it.

I dont want you to feel bad, Im sorry.



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01 Sep 2010, 10:13 am

Dont worry lotusblossom, i just had a lot of frustrated feelings inside. i am sure any gf would have made me feel the same or worse. i will try to improve sense of self.