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I miss you baby.

omg ur embarsing me

and i should be ashamed?

i tend to stay away from the haven unless i acctualy see a title where i think i could help with. this may sound cruel, but if you're in a bad mood, dont look at the haven. by all means, post something if you need help in any way, perhapes you've just never posted anything that directly implies that you want a reply, like asking someone else a question or something. until you feel good again, i dont recommend looking through other peoples sadness almost personified. im not saying anyone here should be ingnored, we all have our problems freind, but if you're depressed along with other people then you wont be able to help anyone on here. all you'll be able to say to them is: "i agree, i feel the same". you have to feel happy yourself before you read other peoples problems on here. my advice to you is to post whatever it is thats dragging you down in a clear cut way that can be easily understood and responded to by others on here.

what you're saying is pretty selfish acctualy...and thats ok. we all hide behind our fake smiles and pretend were all innocent but we all put ourselves at #1 by default as human beings, if we arent honest about crap like this then everything goes kaput. so if anything i respect that you have the guts to say exactly what you feel like, and your honest oppinion (welcome to asperger syndrome). but if im also allowed to be honest, i dont feel one bit ashamed. i dont really recall seeing you post anything in depth enough for me to reply to.

Now we're the Beauty and The Beast!
What have you done to yourself?? You were way prettier! :'(

@right_hand_child Thanks for your post and your advise. You were right about pretty much everything. You didn't sound cruel or rude but you spoke the truth. I will try and stay away from The Haven especially when I'm feeling down. You're right, it does make me feel worse. Thanks again.

i agree, your old avatar was uber sexy

I don't understand it either. I don't get many replies. I think that is probably the norm but
I really don't understand like:
'What are you eating?/Last thing you ate?' -- 966 posts
'Describe the underwear you're wearing' -- 275 posts
'What are you wearing right now!' -- 512 posts
'Penis Size' -- 156 posts
'I cured Asperger's on Ecstasy!' -- 185 posts

And yet a lot of post that ask for help or understanding get only a couple replies
Can anyone explain this? or is it just some questions are easier to answer than others and it boosts your post numbers.

Sometimes I look for questions that no one has answered and try to help.

people often wont answer if they dont have anything they can say or do to help you. so to put it simply yes, some questions are easier to answer than others

People who ask for advise or help or support, other people don't know what advice to give or don't know what to say. Or they can't relate to the situation because they have never experianced it before so they don't know what to give.

You've only made 64 posts!! !


I have over 800 under my belt and I STILL start threads and posts that no one responds to.

Ive got over 1300 and well.... I DUNNO XD