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BrandonSP
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08 Sep 2010, 12:32 pm

Hanotaux wrote:
Did you see "Something New" or "Guess Who?", or "Bulworth?"

It seems to me that the whole white-male/black-female agenda has been at the top of the Hollywood propaganda plot-agenda for the last decade.


"Propaganda"? You say that as if it were a bad thing.


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08 Sep 2010, 1:49 pm

I don't see how that is even an issue. Biracial couples are rather common nowadays. There are some black women who love white guys, I know a few. The point is, it's the same as being attracted to any other feature of another person. It's just taboo because society says so. Go figure. :)



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08 Sep 2010, 2:49 pm

I dated a very attractive brown (nice and chubby too)
girl in high school named Michelle, and she had
a good soul to match.


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08 Sep 2010, 4:21 pm

naturalplastic wrote:
About issue no. 2: How is liking black women any more racist(or shallow) than prefering blondes?
Or any other physical trait?
Ask folks that.


First of all, WHO in their right mind would compare race to hair color???

Second of all, if X is bad but Y is worse, X does NOT suddenly become good.

There are a few other things in the original post that I find problematic, but since is the haven, I'm going to step away from the computer and get pissed in real life rather than on the internet. :)



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08 Sep 2010, 9:44 pm

tomhead wrote:
The one thing I would say, as somebody who has been close to black women all his life and will probably end up marrying one (I live in a 73% black city), is that you can't productively love black women unless you also love black men. So learn to love black men. Get to know some who share your values. (This is another potential benefit re: the NAACP.) Become an activist for black folks as a whole.


As a matter of fact, I have a few black male friends online. Unfortunately I don't know how to go about finding black male friends IRL.


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10 Sep 2010, 9:51 am

I would actually love to have biracial (black/whatever it is that I am) children, either by marriage, or more likely, by sperm donor as I think they are very pretty.
But my stepfather or my brothers would never accept them, and I'd be shunned by them too :(


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