Thats because I'm not one.
All I want to do is progress, I am currently shutting out negativity and that means certain people, like my mother, I would never ask her for help or advice. She always says that she can't help. She's just misguided and I know that the AS diagnosis left her in a "what-what" situation, even though I was diagnosed at 16, 12 years ago and so many people in the disability services have exasperated themselves towards her with knowledge, but to no avail, she can't get it through her Neurotypical mind. So, if I want to succeed, then some people have to be left behind and not know if I've done well at all.