No girl would ever go out with me

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BS. You can get help at your age. And I'm not talking physical growing up. I'm talking mentally.

It's still money. Why waste it on internet when you can use it to improve yourself? And video games cost an awful lot. Especially for people who are poor. That thirty dollars could be saved or put towards some thing important.

If you want to wallow in your own s**t, that's fine. Just don't waste our time by doing it here. If you don't want to change, stop whining.

MR20, you are trolling.

Everyone on this site has problems. Some more significant than others, but they are OUR problems. You have real options that you could turn to in order to improve your life significantly and yet you reject any helpful suggestions rudely and start a new thread to wallow in your self pity.

You don't want help.

Social services could help with your housing. medication and other issues. Man up and do something if you are an adult.

my internet is $62.50 / month which isn't nothing. You could probably get an exterminator for that or buy some traps.

You can always continue your education. Get a job at a fast food restaurant, or in a resto grill as a dishwasher, build up your funds. Working in these kind of dirt jobs you know you`re not there to make friends and its just a stepping stone. When you`ve saved enough, look into taking some home courses to complete your high school diploma. Or go to night school. Don`t worry about making conversation with people, just worry about making enough money to build a solid future, where you can play video games and watch anime and not feel that that is whats holding you back. Because I promise you, it`s not. There are millions of people who are fans of these things. If you can clean your act up, and get into college (if thats your eventual goal), I`m almost certain its like an unwritten rule that every college has an anime club. Don`t worry about being the center of a group. Being a part of a group doesn`t mean you have to be a total comedian or the most interesting person, just someone who listens to the others, makes positive comments, provides feedback and doesn`t harm anyone. And even if you don`t have a big group of friends (who needs one anyway), you`re one step closer to building confidence and meeting a girl who shares your interests. But I should add that women like hygiene, so take more baths my friend, and you`ll have yet another bit of ammunition going for you

Also, for the rats, try rat poison, I hear it lives up to its name
-Vigilans

MR20, you know what the problem is, you said it in your initial post. What you must do is become that strong person. All you have to do is realize that the world that we are living in shouldn't be taken so seriously. It is like a game. It is a 3d version but the real life is in the future when we leave this place. There is nothing to fear. Girls like confidence. Be confident. But I will tell you a secret. Relationships with Girls aren't really what you are looking for anyways. Sure it is fun every now and then but there is a purpose that you came to this planet with. You must find it and it isn't getting girls. Once you realize that this is a game and that you are very powerful, you will get girls but that is just a side benefit. The real fun is seeing how many people you can help out in this world. We came here to make other people happy. By making other people happy, we make ourselves happy. This is hidden knowledge that they don't teach you. When we make other people happy and when you become happy, then the planet becomes magical. This is hidden knowledge that they don't teach you. You will find out if you stand up and start claiming your power.

You really should quit trolling. It's getting a bit stale.

Being mean to you?

When someone offers you polite advice you crap all over it without trying. You need a swift kick in your a** and stop your self pitying crap and fix your life. Again, if you put forth a portion of the energy toward dealing with your problems as you do complaining about them you could make real progress.

MR20...

You have a whole website full of people supporting you, telling you that you can do thiese simple things to improve your life, because we've all been there to some extent.

The title of your post is "no girl will ever go out with me"
Would you go out with a girl who refused to bathe, or attempt to live in sanitary conditions?
Do you expect the girlfriend fairy to drop cinderella into your life with you making no effort what so ever?

I seriously do not understand.

Do you have any way to maybe get counseling or anything like that? seems to me like you might need more professional help. I mean from what I have read it appears you're having an extremly difficult time with life. I mean do you know of anything at all you can do to possibly get help? I am not gonna say get over it and quit pitying yourself...after all people have said that to me a lot when I am trying but everything is so overwhelming I don't know what to do and sometimes that kind of advice just makes those feelings worse. Try and look at all your options though and I am sure there is at least one thing you can find about yourself thats not so bad.....and don't worry so much about getting a relationship at this point. Not all of us females are that terribly impressive, or are looking to be impressed.